Life Check Yourself 448 – This is why happy people still cheat in a relationship with Bobby Frank
Marni welcomes Bobby Frank to the Life Check Yourself studio where the duo delves in the dynamics of a lasting relationship. Bobby who has been married for 31 years is currently working on his book, “The Unimpeachable Wife: Developing a Million Dollar Bank Account and a Million Dollar Family.”
For this episode, Marni and Bobby discuss the secrets to success and longevity within a relationship. Self-reflection, authenticity and personal growth are all part of it. When each person focuses on themselves first, it creates a solid foundation for a successful partnership.
- How to introspect
- What are the ABC’s of marriage?
- How to be Honest
We Need to Talk About Us [04:33]
Don’t focus on the wrong end of the spectrum of marriage or a relationship. The key is to focus on what you both need and want, rather than only prioritizing on your partner.
Don’t violate other principles just because you think something is correct
Honesty Really is The Best Policy [13:14]
It’s been said over and over again because it’s true. Don’t try to be someone that you’re not. Stop saying the things you think your partner wants to hear and start saying how you feel.
That’s how you develop a friendship as well.
The Unspoken Conversation [20:56]
What are the ABCs of marriage? It is knowing that your partner will not trade you in for the newer model, it is knowing that they will love you even in sickness. It is the important questions that keep you together in the long turn.
And c is, can you love me with cancer?
