We’ve recently expanded our podcast… Welcome to Life Check Yourself. Every week you’ll get the raw truth from top experts and real people on the important life and love issues you want to know about. Whether you are laughing out loud, frantically writing down the exact words to live your most authentic life, or finally understanding why something isn’t working in your relationships, this is true talk that’s unfiltered to help you create a life filled with more fun, freedom, fulfillment, and meaning.
So if you’re ready to life check yourself … in your relationships, your career, and the areas of your life that matter most to you … And you’re not afraid to be called out on your uh, stuff then you’re ready for what’s next!
Check out our previous episodes here on this page and subscribe so you don’t miss an episode!
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Life Check Yourself Episode 393 – How to Get out of Your Head and Into Balance with Matt Hogan
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Life Check Yourself Episode 392 - How You Know You Are With a Keeper (Love Island Finale) with Chris Gillis
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Life Check Yourself Episode 391 – How to Leverage Your Body, Brain and Nervous System to be True to Yourself in the Rela...
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Life Check Yourself Episode 390 – A Contemporary Take on Manifesting: How to Use the Power of Emotions and Intuition to ...
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Life Check Yourself Episode 389 - How Hard Should You Fight For it to Work? with Chris Gillis
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Life Check Yourself Episode 388 – Are You Holding Yourself Back by Not Believing in Your Dreams? with Crystal Ware
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Life Check Yourself Episode 387 - What The Good Guys Need You To Know with Chris Gillis
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Life Check Yourself Episode 386 - Can You Change Him? with Chris Gillis
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Life Check Yourself Episode 385 – Why Being Happy is Blocking You From Being Real with Whitney Goodman
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Life Check Yourself Episode 384 - If He Says He Has Changed, Should You Trust Him? with Chris Gillis
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Life Check Yourself Episode 383 – Does Your Man Have the ONE Quality He Needs to Create a Long-Term Relationship? with S...
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Life Check Yourself Episode 382 - These Types of Guys Will Leave You Heartbroken with Chris Gillis
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Life Check Yourself Episode 381 – The Things Your Future Husband Wants You to Know with Matthew Coast
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Life Check Yourself Episode 380 – This Drives Quality Men Wild With Desire with Bobbi Palmer
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Life Check Yourself Episode 378 – Signs You Should Run For The Hills (That Are Dangerous and Easy To Miss) with Dr. Emil...
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Life Check Yourself Episode 378 – Signs You Should Run For The Hills (That Are Dangerous and Easy To Miss) with Dr. Emil...
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Life Check Yourself Episode 377 - How Attachment and Nervous System Regulation Impact Your Ability to Attract Your 5-Sta...
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Life Check Yourself Episode 376 - How to Shift Your Energy From Seeking to Attracting with Luke Iorio
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Life Check Yourself Episode 375 - Money Issues That Are Red Flags In Your Relationship With Dr. Emily Owens & Chris Gill...
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Life Check Yourself Episode 374 - The 1-10 Scale of Women Hotness: Are Men Who Do it Jerks or Are They Just Men? with Ch...
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Life Check Yourself Episode 373 - Nobody Meeting Your Standards? You Just Might be Too Judgmental with Dave Neal
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Life Check Yourself Episode 372 - How to Make Sure You Don’t Waste Your Time With the Wrong Guy with Chris Gillis
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Life Check Yourself Episode 371 - How to Hack Your Metabolism And Feel Better at Any Age with Carolyn Williams
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Life Check Yourself Episode 370 - Five Things You Should Never Do on the First Date
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Life Check Yourself Episode 369 - Obsessing: Why it Happens and How to Get a Grip Now
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Life Check Yourself Episode 368 - How Dateable Are You? The Top 5 Relationship Mistakes Successful Women Are Making Righ...
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Life Check Yourself Episode 367 - 4 Steps to Train Your Brain to Stop the Blame Game and Avoid the Ick
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Life Check Yourself Episode 366 - How Long After a Breakup Does it Take to Be Really Ready for a New Relationship? With ...
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Life Check Yourself Episode 365 - With Michael Kaye: Top Insider Secrets from OkCupid Exec on How to Work the System and...
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Life Check Yourself Episode 364 - The Surprising Reasons Women Don’t Want Nice Guys with Chris Gillis
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Life Check Yourself Episode 363 - With Brett Parker: How to Break Free From Feeling Trapped in Your Life to Have More En...
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Life Check Yourself Episode 362 - With Hunt Ethridge: The Best Questions You Can Ask to Get to Know if He is Your Person
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Life Check Yourself Episode 361 - This is Not What it Looks Like When You Are Falling in Love with Chris Gillis & Dr. Em...
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Life Check Yourself Episode 360 - Dating Multiple Men: What to Say and Do to Finesse it Like a Queen with Chris Gillis
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Life Check Yourself Episode 359 - A Revolutionary Approach for Today’s Modern Woman: How to Define Your Type so You Can ...
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Life Check Yourself Episode 358 - What Vulnerability Really Looks Like: Are These Mistakes Ruining Your Chances with a G...
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Life Check Yourself Episode 357 - Can It Work if He Doesn’t Speak Your Love Language? With Chris Gillis
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Life Check Yourself Episode 356 - Exactly Why Dating Feels Like a Roller Coaster (and How to Get the “F” Off) with Chris...
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Life Check Yourself Episode 355 - The Real Reason You Put Off Responding to His Texts, and Why It Really Is a Thing with...
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Life Check Yourself Episode 354 - Girl, These Are the Basic Mistakes You Can’t Afford to Make in the Beginning with Chri...
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Life Check Yourself Episode 353 - With Sara McElroy: Why Having That A Career That is Thriving and A Love Life That Suck...
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Life Check Yourself Episode 352 - Do You Have That One Issue That Will Continue to Haunt Your Dating Life Forever? With ...
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Life Check Yourself Episode 351 - With Dr. Eva Selhub — How to Get Back to Joy When Life Feels Freaking Hard
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Life Check Yourself Episode 350 - The #1 Question You Ask a Man After the One You Ask About His Relationship Goals with ...
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Life Check Yourself Episode 349 - With Angie Hooper: Help. I’m Still So Mad at Him and I Can’t Let it Go
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Life Check Yourself Episode 348 - The Subtle (and Not So Subtle) Ways You Are Sabotaging All Your Relationships with Chr...
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Life Check Yourself Episode 347 - With Dr. Megan Rossi: Don't Make Those Last 10 Pounds the Reason You Aren’t Dating
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Life Check Yourself Episode 346 - What to Say and When to Say it, if You Are Dating Multiple Men at the Same Time with C...
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Life Check Yourself Episode 345 - With Sherry: I Can’t Get Over Him. What Should I Do?
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Life Check Yourself Episode 344 - 3 Things You Must Communicate to a Man Early in the Dating Process To Make Sure He is ...
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Life Check Yourself Episode 343 - Thank You To Our Amazing Community - Exciting Announcement
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Life Check Yourself Episode 342 - With Efia Sulter: Why ‘Fake it ‘til You Make It’ is the Worst Advice Ever
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Life Check Yourself Episode 341 - When is the Right Time to Tell Someone You Are Dating About Your Issues? With Chris Gi...
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Life Check Yourself Episode 340 - How to Rewire Your Attachment Style and Stop Reacting Like You Are Crazy
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Life Check Yourself Episode 339 - How to Navigate Conflict, PLUS, the Surefire Way to Turn Off a High-Quality Guy
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Life Check Yourself Episode 338 - The 3 Biggest Mistakes That Are Keeping You Stuck & Single with Chris Gillis
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Life Check Yourself Episode 337 - With Amy Green Smith: How to Speak Up for Yourself Without Being a Bitch
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Life Check Yourself Episode 336 - When Your Heart Says Yes, Should You Follow It?
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Life Check Yourself Episode 335 - Is it a Red Flag or Are You Just Being Picky? With Rayna and Kloey Battista
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Life Check Yourself Episode 334 - With Mat Boggs: Manifest the Loving Relationship You Want Now!
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Life Check Yourself Episode 333 - Is it Really Better to Date Multiple People at the Same Time? With Chris Gillis
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Life Check Yourself Episode 332 - With Shoshana: The 5 KEYS —The Best Relationship of Your Life Begins with You
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Life Check Yourself Episode 331 - With Kimberly Beam Holmes: The Four Science-Based Ways to 100% Know if You Should Rule...
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Life Check Yourself Episode 330 - With Melanie Curtin: Everything You Need to Know to Have Better Sex
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Life Check Yourself Episode 329 - With Amber Grubenmann: How Sex Impacts The How to Go From Dating to Exclusive Formula
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Life Check Yourself Episode 328 - What Being Neuro Diverse Can Teach You About Finding Love Now with Chris Gillis & Rayn...
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Life Check Yourself Episode 327 - With Naomi: The Secrets I Finally Learned to Find the Love of My Life in My 40s
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Life Check Yourself Episode 326 - With Heidi Dusek: Do You Really Have To Wait To Start Living Your Dream Life Now?
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Life Check Yourself Episode 325 - The Best Way to Issue an Ultimatum and Get Him to Change with Chris Gillis
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Life Check Yourself Episode 324 - With Kalyn Wilson: Procrastinating? How to Stop Waiting for the Right Time and Start L...
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Life Check Yourself Episode 323 - Love is Blind: The Subtle Ways You May Be Sabotaging Your Love Life with Chris Gillis
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Life Check Yourself Episode 322 - With Jessica Baum: How to Identify Your Attachment Style to Finally Have the Big Love ...
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Life Check Yourself Episode 321 - With Patricia Diesel: How to Get Rid of Your Man Clutter and Make Way for Mr. Right
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Life Check Yourself Episode 320 - Love is Blind: Can You Create Chemistry Even if You Are Not Attracted? With Chris Gill...
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Life Check Yourself Episode 319 - With Kibby McMahon & Jacqueline Trumbull: What to Know About Dating Someone Who's Stru...
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Life Check Yourself Episode 318 - How to Know if That One Issue is Worth Breaking Up Over with Chris Gillis
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Life Check Yourself Episode 317 - With Kute Blackson: How to Keep Going When You Keep Striking Out at Finding Love
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Life Check Yourself Episode 316 - With Chris Gillis: Love is Blind Recap — Is It Really a Deal Breaker or Can You Compro...
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Life Check Yourself Episode 315 - With Fred Joyal: The Best Way to Start Up a Conversation with That Hot Guy You are Int...
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Life Check Yourself Episode 314 - Top Dating Mistakes You are Making Online with Chris Gillis
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Life Check Yourself Episode 313 - With Sherry Gaba: Signs of an Unhealthy Love Addiction — Red Flags to Look Out For
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Life Check Yourself Episode 312 - With Tess Brigham: Why Knowing Your Issues May Not Be Enough to Get Better Results
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Life Check Yourself Episode 311 - With Sally Maxwell: How to Get Off Autopilot and Design a Life You Absolutely Love
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Life Check Yourself Episode 309 - With Krista St-Germain: How to Transform Your Tragedy and Your Loss Into Your Biggest...
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Life Check Yourself Episode 308 - Do You Need to Ask if He is Sleeping with Other People? With Chris Gillis & Dr. Emily
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Life Check Yourself Episode 307 - With Ed Coambs: How Knowing Your Attachment Style Can Stop Money Issues from Damaging ...
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Life Check Yourself Episode 306 - How to Master Differences Between the Friend Zone and Girlfriend Zone with Chris Gill...
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Life Check Yourself Episode 305 - If You Are Using This to Get Him to Fall for You, It Is Probably Pushing Him Away wit...
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Life Check Yourself Episode 304 - With Bryant Ellis: How to Respond to Failure So You Win Every Time
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Life Check Yourself Episode 303 - How to Find Out If He Is Ready for Marriage and Commitment with Chris Gillis
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- Breakups And Bad For You Men
- Dating And Relationship Skills
- Dating for The High-Achieving Woman
- Just Tell Me What to Say
- Why Am I Still Single?
How to Get out of Your Head and Into Balance with Matt Hogan
Life Check Yourself Episode 393 – How to Get out of Your Head and Into Balance with Matt Hogan
How You Know You Are With a Keeper (Love Island Finale) with Chris Gillis
Life Check Yourself Episode 392 – How You Know You Are With a Keeper (Love Island Finale) with Chris Gillis
How to Leverage Your Body, Brain and Nervous System to be True to Yourself in the Relationships that Matter to You Most with Jay Fields
Life Check Yourself Episode 391 – How to Leverage Your Body, Brain and Nervous System to be True to Yourself in the Relationships that Matter to You Most with Jay Fields
A Contemporary Take on Manifesting: How to Use the Power of Emotions and Intuition to Cultivate Peace, Freedom and Joy with Sherianna Boyle
Life Check Yourself Episode 390 – A Contemporary Take on Manifesting: How to Use the Power of Emotions and Intuition to Cultivate Peace, Freedom and Joy with Sherianna Boyle
How Hard Should You Fight For it to Work? with Chris Gillis
Life Check Yourself Episode 389 – How Hard Should You Fight For it to Work? with Chris Gillis
Are You Holding Yourself Back by Not Believing in Your Dreams? with Crystal Ware
Life Check Yourself Episode 388 – Are You Holding Yourself Back by Not Believing in Your Dreams? with Crystal Ware
What The Good Guys Need You To Know with Chris Gillis
Life Check Yourself Episode 387 – What The Good Guys Need You To Know with Chris Gillis
Can You Change Him? with Chris Gillis
Life Check Yourself Episode 386 – Can You Change Him? with Chris Gillis
Why Being Happy is Blocking You From Being Real with Whitney Goodman
Life Check Yourself Episode 385 – Why Being Happy is Blocking You From Being Real with Whitney Goodman
If He Says He Has Changed, Should You Trust Him? with Chris Gillis
Life Check Yourself Episode 384 – If He Says He Has Changed, Should You Trust Him? with Chris Gillis
Does Your Man Have the ONE Quality He Needs to Create a Long-Term Relationship? with Shawn Haywood
Life Check Yourself Episode 383 – Does Your Man Have the ONE Quality He Needs to Create a Long-Term Relationship? with Shawn Haywood
These Types of Guys Will Leave You Heartbroken with Chris Gillis
Life Check Yourself Episode 382 – These Types of Guys Will Leave You Heartbroken with Chris Gillis
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After many failed attempts with relationships, I no longer wanted to be the girl laying on the bathroom floor sobbing due to a broken heart. At just the right moment, I came across and took Marni’s courses. Shortly after I had my first interaction with Tom, my now husband, and I was able to put all the things I learned into practice. I am forever grateful for the wisdom I gained from Marni’s program that led to the ultimate blessing of finding the most amazing, partner, friend, lover, and husband I could ask for!

Martin and I are now celebrating our 3rd Christmas together and we simply could not be happier. Our relationship is exactly what I had in my vision and I remain super grateful for the work we did during the LA workshop.
Trekking over 300km in the high Himalayan Mountains with the love of my life is my definition of bliss. Your program remains the most life-changing program of my life.

Thank you for the knowledge you have given me. The information has continued to be life changing. I had struggled with finding a relationship since the beginning and often blamed myself 'I am not good enough' and that no one would love me.
I am so blessed that I choose to take the leap since what you taught me has change the perspective about myself. The support from you, Tessa and the group, being in a place to open up in a safe space, and now finding love for life.

Marni helped me to see that what I was doing wasn't going to lead me to where I wanted. If I hadn’t followed the guiding hand of Marni, I wouldn’t have been ready to accept the moments and opportunities presented to me every day. I wouldn’t have met Mark. Having Marni hold me accountable made it easy to recognize when Mr. Right came along.

I have great news! I got engaged this Saturday!
Thanks so much for all your help this past year. I’m super happy!
(Since Neha's wedding last year, she and her husband Rupen welcomed a baby into the world!)

I came to you in the midst of a breakup, the end of yet another destructive relationship on the heels of divorce. I met the love of my life within three months of beginning work with you, and now we’re moving in together and joining our lives...I’m staying with you, Marni.
7 years and 3 kids later I have the life I’ve always dreamed of....relationships are not easy, but I still use the tools that I learned with Marni to communicate, problem solve and love life! THANK YOU Marni!!!!

Through your program, I realized I was being a victim my whole life, which was the most eye opening part. It helped me to see things differently and change who I was so that I wasn’t going back to my old habits. I got a great guy that has helped me to grow and be a better person. I am so grateful to you.
You had a huge influence on my life decisions and I’m eternally grateful for that!

I had a wonderful life, an amazing successful career, family and friends, but the only thing missing was my dream guy. I could just not figure out why this part of my life was so lacking. After I joined Marni’s program, I was able to see very clearly what was holding me back. EYE OPENING BREAKTHROUGHS.
I trusted and I leaned all the way into Marni’s coaching program, and—not only did I find love in my life, the longest, most fulfilling relationship I’ve ever had—all parts of my life are more fulfilled. I am so grateful that I did. It has been an amazing journey!

I was in my 50’s and I didn’t know how to date or make good judgements about men. I had begun to wonder if it was just too late. Marni quickly cut to the chase and helped me see where I was confused and stuck in unhelpful patterns. A month later I met Trevor at an event and our relationship blossomed quickly. Fast forward to 2020, we have been married for three and a half years and no regrets – I feel very lucky to have been given a second chance.