Life Check Yourself 444 – The 3 NICE GIRL habits ALL women must break with Lily Womble
Marni welcomes Lily Womble to the Life Check Yourself studio where the duo discusses what holds successful women back from truly flourishing in the dating world? Lily, who shot to fame after a viral TikTok video is the founder and CEO of DateBrazen.com. She’s helped women overcome personal obstacles to achieve confidence and whole dating lives. It’s not just about finding the right relationship but about understanding what is keeping you stagnating.
* How to live in your main character energy
* You’re not too anything
* Ask for what you want out loud
The Slot Machines of Dating [10:59]
Dating apps are built like slot machines; they’re designed to keep you wanting a little more. They give you just enough of what you need so that you come back for more.
It’s going to give you enough of the good stuff to keep you coming back, but not enough of the good stuff to get you in a relationship.
How to Really Move Forward [18:08]
Getting into the relationship isn’t the prize for healing. Healing is for you. And once you’ve done that, the relationship comes. Don’t compare your own dating life or relationship to others because you don’t know what is actually happening behind closed doors. None of us do.
The only thing separating people, I believe from finding the right relationship is giving themselves permission to want what they want.
Trust Yourself [23:44]
It seems obvious but self-trust is at the root of healing. Trust yourself to bless and release the people who are wrong for you. And don’t look back.
The more swiftly you bless and release the wrong people, the more swiftly you’ll find yourself in the best relationship.
