Dating Den Episode 261 – With Estella: How to Meet Your Future Fiance in Just Two Weeks and Break Your Streak of Dating Unavailable Men
Are you now, or have you ever been in a relationship with a guy who’s only interested in you when you’re dating someone else?
Have you ever dated a guy for a few weeks before he realized he “wasn’t ready for a relationship”?
Or been with a guy who liked to string you along, giving you just enough attention and love to keep you on the hook?
Actually, a lot of smart, successful women end up attracting unavailable men like these!
The worst part is, it keeps you from finding the right man, and will make you think you “aren’t good at dating.”
Good thing for you, Marni’s got you covered on this episode!
Marni welcomes a former Bachelor winner and Dating with Dignity client into the Den. In 2016, Estella Renee was chosen by Bachelor Bob only to find out he was dating someone else. Today, she is happily engaged and runs a successful health and wellness business. She shares what she needed to shift before finding the man she has always wanted.
Key takeaways from this episode:
- Healing from past heartbreak
- Learning to unlock your heart
- Why your online dating profile should reflect your non-negotiables
- When you do the work, the right guy will find you
When Everyone Knows You Have Been Hurt [3:15]
Shortly before the Bachelor, Estella suffered a two-fold heartbreak. Her father passed away, then the man she was dating broke up with her. Then to top things off, after Bachelor Bob chose her, it was revealed that he was dating someone else when they were supposed to be working toward a relationship. The rejection was televised and she was really embarrassed!
But, she was determined to find her man. She searched dating coaches and found Marni!
Doing the Work [20:36]
After working with Marni for just a short time she had her first breakthrough. It had become clear to her that she was attracting emotionally unavailable men because she was emotionally unavailable. She felt she wanted to commit, but she was not prepared to fully open her heart, and men could sense it.
Trusting in the Process [34:26]
Estella was only on Match.com for two weeks. Her fiance was one of the first people to contact her after reading her lengthy, but clear profile.
Soon to be married, she and her fiance are also opening a new studio focused on recovery and repair in addition to sculpting the body.
If you want to know exactly what Estella said in her profile and WHY it made all the difference…
Watch this episode now!
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