Admit your feelings and needs to yourself. Make sure it's coming from your highest self not the part of you that has an unmet emotional need.
A woman who is confident and can trust herself can communicate in a feminine way that is experienced by him as clear, kind and direct.
Holding back your thoughts creates psychological tension for yourself. This tension then causes you to become resentful, or aggressive.
When you're afraid to be real because you're afraid of rejection, this can make you shut down. Release and heal the self doubt that is limiting you.
When a woman is sincere, playful, light-hearted and is dating with intention, a quality man will work hard to get her love.