Scared Women believe deep down that their painful relationship pasts will keep repeating themselves; and, as a result, they become too terrified to let down their guard. They are continually attracted to men who are not available because it’s safe. They return to exes who should stay in the past. When men who could be good matches come into their worlds, they are not attracted to them, put up walls, or simply leave.

 

 

You get to feel safe, which makes you feel in control. You may make it look like you are “trying” to date, but the truth is that you give priority to the other things in your life. You may be secretly (or openly) in contact with an ex or someone you know isn’t good for you, but you keep him at arm’s length—or he consistently disappears and reappears reinforcing your fears. As a result, you are “right” about why it’s not safe to open up your heart again. Your feelings are easily buried behind “business” or other distractions; and, as a result, you to rationalize, justify, and cope with everything that happens in your love life rather than deal with your fears.

 

 

My past does not define me, nor must it repeat. I am loveable. It is safe to be vulnerable. Everything is working out perfectly for my highest good. I am safe.

 

 

You will continue to attract men who are emotionally unavailable, proving that you are right about giving you good reason to keep up your walls. You don’t trust yourself, and you may not trust men. You are afraid of being left, hurt, or betrayed. You may be waiting for someone from your past to “change.” You get used to having crumbs and thus accept small bits of love and affection rather than asking for the whole cake. You carry shame, regret, and remorse. You will not experience receiving love wholeheartedly because your man may be emotionally unavailable. You may not feel connected to other women or have strong friendships with women, which causes you to feel like you don’t fit in. You may attract great men, but they sense that you are guarded and may “give up” trying to get you to soften up. You feel isolated, hopeless, and trapped by your past.

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

3. I don’t really fit in.

So, why don’t quality men see you as The One?

As the Scared Woman, your thoughts and beliefs that you are somehow less than and a lack of self-worth are leaking when you’re around the men you like. You are sending men the wrong message, without even realizing it. The truth is, women that appear to have low self-esteem, is the number one dating turn off for the Scared Woman. And sends the energy that causes you to attract losers and players.

Here at DWD, we have an amazing tool that will help you uncover exactly where and when you are leaking this bad energy, and WHY you’ve been unable to find real and lasting love. The women that watch our workshop, “5 Steps My Clients Use To Finally Have A Man Who Makes Them Feel Loved, Respected and Valued” discover the exact things they’re doing, saying, and thinking that repel men they want to attract. As well as WHAT you have to do to turn it around and get a sexy, successful, and available man to adore you, fall in love with you, become obsessed with you, and see you as the woman he wants to grow old with. Think about it: you’re attractive, successful, and intelligent. You should be in an amazing relationship right now!

 

Take Action Now and Leave the Scared Woman Behind!