Life Check Yourself Episode 327 – Life Check Yourself Episode 327 - With Naomi: The Secrets I Finally Learned to Find the Love of My Life in My 40s
Are you fed up with dating these days?
Had enough of the swiping, endless texting and of course… ghosting?
Tired of attracting the same wrong guy with a different face?
Have you felt for way too long, that you’re one step away from finding your ideal match and wish someone would tell you wtf you’re doing wrong?!
Marni speaks to a 5 Keys to Becoming Irresistible program graduate about how she found the love of her life in her 40s. After finishing the program,
Naomi met her fiance and soon-to-be father of her child on a dating app. She shares what she was missing before joining the program, what she learned during the program, and how she applied the knowledge to meet the love of her life.
Key takeaways from this episode:
- Don’t give up on your dreams
- All men are not the same
- Reach out for help when you have tried everything
- Stop sabotaging yourself
Giving Up Without Putting Your Best Self Out There [2:11]
Naomi remembers she was 43 and in a rough place. She had been in a long-term relationship that couldn’t last. She got really attached to a guy she had only dated for a week. She knows she wanted kids but her biological clock was ticking. She was even trying to get pregnant on her own with some of the guys she dated.
Be All You Can Be [6:28]
Naomi had looked online but what drew her to the 5 Keys to Becoming irresistible program was the vibe that this program was going to be about how she could be the best person she could be to draw in the right person at the right time. She wanted to be in the right headspace to navigate a solid relationship.
There comes a time when you are the common denominator.
During the program, Naomi found the narrowing down of the qualities she was truly looking for super helpful and how to get vulnerable during the dating process. She even got help from Helen, so she could text just the right thing after the program ended.
Biggest Takeaways from the Program [28:48]
Naomi says she may have missed out on THE guy if you generalize all men as the same. And she has great advice for other ladies who may be ready to give up!
Her biggest takeaways from the 5 Keys program:
- She has a greater sense of who she is
- She gained clarity about what she wanted.
- She put herself in situations where she would meet more people