Life Check Yourself Episode 331 – With Kimberly Beam Holmes: The Four Science-Based Ways to 100% Know if You Should Rule Him in or Rule Him Out
Are you struggling because there are so many options of men online these days…
You’re not sure who you should give your attention to, and who you should leave alone?
Have you always relied on chemistry to know if a guy is for you…
and now you’re thinking you may have discarded someone who ultimately could have been the right man for you?
The thing is… you’re right!
Marni welcomes the CEO of Marriage Helper and Host of the podcast, It Starts with Attraction, Kimberly Beam Holmes to the Life Check Yourself studio. Kimberly has a Master’s in Psychology and for over 10 years she has been researching the ways attraction affects people personally and the relationships they hold near and dear to their hearts.
Key takeaways from this episode:
- How to dig deep into another person through curiosity
- The Love Path method
- Be compassionate before you rule a guy out
- How to reignite the attraction of a spouse or significant other
The Phases of Falling and Staying in Love [2:43]
Most people don’t know that there is a process to falling in love. They often think it is just chemistry or a pre-destined soulmate but in reality, any two people who follow Kimberly’s process will fall in love.
On the flip side of that, if a couple steps away from the process they could start falling out of love.
At Marriage Helper, Kimberly’s team helps couples fall back in love. The Love Path method is researched-based and time-tested. There are four steps in the Love Path:
- P.I.E.S. Attraction
- Acceptance
- Attachment
- Aspiration
The more people focus on body appearance the more their self-worth decreases.
Long-term relationships are made up of people who share visions, aspirations, and goals for their future together.
When we start dating we tend to have shared goals but after time as we achieve our goals, many couples get bogged down in careers, kids, and chores.
Life can pull us apart if we are not intentional about keeping our relationship together.
