Dating Den Episode 247 – With Matthew Coast: The 3 Things That Show You Are a Woman of Value in the Eyes of a High-Quality Man
In this episode of the Dating Den, Marni speaks with bestselling author Matthew Coast about what it takes to be a forever woman. In his book, The Forever Woman: Make Him See You as the Woman He Wants Forever, he outlines the top three ways women become a person of value. He shares the important details in this conversation.
Key takeaways from this episode:
- How to be a woman of value
- #1 things women do to not show their value
- Biggest hurdles for men
- Moving past your past
- Dating in abundance
The Forever Woman Formula [2:51]
Guy after guy Matthew speaks with says they doubt they will ever find their forever woman. A poll shows that 87% of men want to find a woman they can settle down with but, they don’t believe they will ever find her.
One of the biggest hurdles for men is that they have other things in their way such as insecurities and stagnant patterns. It is difficult to break patterns that have been in place for decades. Men may avoid commitment or they may be scared to open up and not believe someone will love them for who they are.
You can normally see someone’s future if you look at the patterns of their past.
A man is more likely to put in extra effort if a woman seems valuable to him. The Forever Woman Formula is all about value:
- Believe in your value
Position yourself in value
Communicate your value
A woman who knows her value doesn’t get taken advantage of.
What is a High-Value Woman [25:18]
Matthew says it is obvious when a woman values herself. He recommends being in a position where men are competing for your love, attention, time, and commitment. He says when most women come to him they are concentrated on just one guy. Something that when gender-flipped, men call it ‘one-itis’ a disease for being stuck on one person who doesn’t like you as much as you like them or isn’t reciprocating in the way you want them to.
Live in abundance, meaning being open to dating more than just one man.
#1 Communication Issue for Women [31:14]
Matthew says many women are afraid to communicate what they want because they are scared they don’t deserve it, or a man will freak out and run away. But, what women ultimately find is when they do speak their value certain guys run off but others, the high-quality guys step up.
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