Dating Den Episode 257 – With Guy Shahar: How to Use Tantra to Create Massive Attraction with Men
Have you ever had the sinking feeling that you were somehow turning off handsome, relationship-ready, quality men because you were (unconsciously) making a critical mistake?
And you’re afraid that if you don’t change something you’ll just keep doing it… without knowing what “it” is?
You’re definitely not alone. I’ve talked to so many accomplished women who feel the exact same way.
And it all comes down to one thing…
We are so busy in our lives and careers, using our masculine energy to ‘get things done’… we forget how to slip back into our fun, flirty, FEMININE self when we’re around a man we want to attract.
The good news is this episode of The Dating Den is going to help you with all that, so you can get the sexy, successful, and available men you want to adore you and fall in love with you.
This week Marni welcomes Guy Shahar into the Den. Guy is the co-founder and lead facilitator of the Tantra Institute and the originator of Tantra Speed Date. He is an advanced certified Tantra educator, writer, and entrepreneur. With decades of experience, he teaches people how to become better lovers and how to heal the rift between masculine and feminine energies.
Key Takeaways from this Episode:
- Surrender into your feminine
- Form more intimate connections
- Allow a man to make mistakes
- How to have fulfilling dating experiences
Tantra Speed Date [2:55]
If you cringe when you think of speed dating, Tantra Speed Date may be just what you are looking for. Guy explains how Tantra Speed Date can offer deeper connections between a man and a woman while eliminating the preconceived ideas and judgment normally present when dating.
What we think we want may not be in alignment with what we are attracted to.
Dropping into Feminine [18:57]
Women have been taught to be more masculine to get what they want, maybe too much so. They often feel they have to take care of everything themselves and can’t completely relax or surrender.
The more a woman surrenders into her feminine the more it energetically encourages a man to step up into his masculine because we naturally polarize each other.
On a date, if a woman shows up in her masculine a man might have to alpha compete to see who will be in the masculine or it can polarize him into his feminine. If you want a man in his masculine it being in your masculine will sabotage your efforts.
- Allow a man a few mistakes while he gets to know you.
- Encourage a man to be in his masculine role.
- Develop a relationship with your body.
- Give a man a mission, then reward him for carrying it out.
- Stop believing the cultural rhetoric about men