Life Check Yourself Episode 287 – With Tara: How to Break Up with the Almost Guy and Find Your Right Guy Now
Have you met a really good guy…
handsome, smart, kind. Adores you.
You have fun together. Good sex.
He checks almost all of your boxes. But something’s missing?
There’s no magic.
And even though you know he’s not quite ‘the one’ but you stay anyway?
In this inspirational coaching episode, Marni speaks with Tara. Tara was part of the 5-Keys to Becoming Irresistible program in May of 2020. She is a 38-year-old, single, Professional Marketing and PR Communications expert. Tara describes how she created the life she wanted by using the foundational principles of the program.
Key Takeaways from this Episode:
- Setting boundaries
- Keeping your word to yourself
- Knowing when to bow out of a relationship
- Putting yourself out there
Finding the Key to What Was Missing [2:25]
Tara was put into a position of leadership within the craft brewing community of Charleston, SC. She had traveled, changed jobs, and cities but still didn’t have a partner.
When Tara thought about it she realized she didn’t know how to date. She knew she needed help because what worked for her in the past didn’t really work for her. So, she reached out to Marni and the team then joined the 5-Keys to Becoming Irresistible program in May of 2020.
Previous to joining the program, Tara had spent years in therapy, studied her attachment style, read books, and had even tried to travel it out but none of these things empowered her to get the life she wanted.
Transform Your Dating Life [10:32]
It is possible to rewire our brains to overcome, shift, and shed existing patterns. Tara describes how she shifted her attachment style.
She says it will always be work. She has to constantly remind herself that she put her boundaries in place for a reason.
Tara started a new relationship using what she learned from the program. She says she wanted to believe that love conquers all but it just isn’t realistic.
Whether it is an App or a Pub, You Have to Put Yourself Out There [28:18]
Tara says she put out to the universe that she wants to meet someone organically. She knows she wants a partner she can do things with but she doesn’t have to have a ring on her finger. It’s more important, for her, to have shared values with someone.
