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This Life-Changing Event Replay Will Help You:

  • Become the woman who gets everything -- and every man -- she wants
  • Let go of your ex, big breakup, and painful past once and for all
  • Learn what it takes to fall in love with an incredible man who will love you right back
  • Discover how real women can have it all: sex, love, career, and everything in between

Find Love Now creator Marni Battista is the founder of Dating With Dignity, as featured on…

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Become the Woman Who Gets Everything
— and Every Man — She Wants…

Ignite Your Life LIVE is the premier event for the smart, sophisticated, and sexy woman who has it all…. except the perfect man to love.

If you’ve already read all the self-help books, called in the one, and tried to be the bitch men supposedly love, and nothing has worked to change your “single status,” you do not want to miss this event of a lifetime.

Join me and hundreds of other amazing women for a transformative three-day weekend experience to master Dating with Dignity’s secret technology to meet, date, and fall in love with a high-quality man who loves you right back.

This is an intimate event like no other, and by the end of our time together you will be that woman who gets everything she wants in life: sex, love, career, and everything in between. If you’re serious about making 2014 the year you meet and fall in love with the perfect man for you, then you cannot afford to miss this.

You Will LOVE the “Ignite Your Life” Replay If…

  • You’re seriously fed up with getting screwed over, and you just want to find the perfect guy for you and be done with being single forever.
  • You’re crazy successful at everything you put your mind to — except love — and you want to know why.
  • No one in your life knows why you’re single because you’re a total catch, so you want to know what the hell is going on.
  • You’re open to trying something new and totally unconventional to get to the bottom of your unlucky love life.
  • You know that something you’re doing with men isn’t working, and you’re ready to find out what you need to do differently to get your love life where you want it to be.
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discontent woman

This Event Is 100% NOT for You If…

  • You get satisfaction out of being in drama-filled relationships, and you’re not really motivated to change.
  • You’d rather complain about your situation and hear your friends and family give you sympathy than actually take action to change what’s not working.
  • You secretly enjoy being treated poorly by men, and you have no desire to find out why.
  • You’re always right, and you’re not open to anyone else’s point of view about what you could do differently in your love life.
  • You don’t want the truth about why you’re still single; you just want to hear what you want to hear.


Fri., Jan. 17, 6:30 PM - 8:30 PM

Discover Dating with Dignity’s 21st Century Secret Technology to Find Love with a High-Quality Man


This first portion of the event is devoted to showing you why nothing else you’ve tried has worked to change your love life and what you need to do differently to make sure our secret technology works for you.

By the end of this first day, you’ll understand why you’re single, and you’ll know what you need to do to attract a man who is open, vulnerable, and committed — and whose words and actions match.

During this part of the event, you will:

  • Understand why, even though you’ve read all the self-help books and followed all the rules, you’re still single.
  • Know the five things you’re going to have to do to make our secret technology work for you.
  • Know the four characteristics you have to have if you want to attract a man who is open, vulnerable, and committed, and whose words and actions match.

Sat., Jan. 18 8:30 AM - 6:00 PM. Bonus: 7:30 PM - 9:30 PM

Master Our Sure-Fire Strategies to Make Sure No Guy Ever Disappears on You or Screws You Over Again


The second day of the event is devoted to showing you how to break those negative dating patterns that are always popping up and causing men to disappear and screw you over. For example, maybe you get super obsessive and anxious when you really like a guy, or maybe you’re really successful in your career but you have no idea what men really want in a partner. Whatever your unique pattern is, this is the part of the event where you stop doing it–forever.

Step One: Reveal

The 21st Century Woman’s Secret Technology to Finding Love Now: 5 keys to being perpetually irresistible:

  • Understand why online dating, fix-ups, bars, MeetUp.com, and other ways you traditionally meet men don’t work (and won’t ever work until you re-program your dating GPS).
  • Learn what “feminine” means in the 21st century, especially as a high-powered, successful woman who doesn’t want to have to jump into the girly-girl bucket to date powerful men.
  • How to eliminate the “nothing works for me” belief in your head to re-activate your love life.
  • Become the person you want to attract so the man you want can fall in love with you.

Step Two: Release

Stopping the “Same Guy, Different Face” Syndrome:

  • Get off the dating “emotional roller coaster” once and for all and become a confident dater who never says “I don’t get it” to her male and female friends.
  • Break the bad dating habits that are keeping you single.
  • Stop obsessing over men, and stop doing things you’re embarrassed about later.
  • Discover how to get comfortable in your own skin when you walk into a room.
  • Learn our #1 mind trick to access inner peace, joy, and confidence no matter what happens with the guy, so you can be the “it” girl who commands attention when she walks into the room.
  • Tap into your feminine power so you stop obsessing about what he thinks, whether he’s into you, and what it means when he says X, Y, or Z.
  • Understand why you haven’t been able to change your dating results no matter how smart you are and how hard you try, and discover what you will have to do to get new results. (Trust me, it’s something you’ve never even thought to do before!)


The World Famous Man Panel!

We’ve handpicked a panel of handsome, insightful and utterly truthful men to answer ANY question you have about men & dating!

Some women consider this the best part of the entire event. You’ll learn:

  • EXACTLY how men respond to your nonverbal & verbal cues
  • How to turn on a sophisticated man without coming off like a… well, you know
  • How to know without a doubt that he’s into you
  • Why certain things you’re doing might send him running for the hills
  • What helps men “flip the switch” from casual dating to “I want a relationship with you” mode
  • When to reveal your “romantic backstory”
  • And way more!

Steve is one of our Man Panel experts!

Steve is one of our Man Panel experts!

Chris is one of our Man Panel experts!

Joseph is one of our Man Panel experts!

Corey is one of our Man Panel experts!

Tripp is one of our Man Panel experts!

Jon is one of our Man Panel experts!

David is one of our Man Panel experts!

Sun., Jan. 19, 9:00 AM - 4:00 PM

Becoming the Sexy Alpha Femme — It’s What’s Required to Create Your Epic Modern Day Romance WHILE Keeping Your Day Job!


The final day of the event is devoted to showing you how to become the sexy alpha femme whom high-quality men are searching for right now. It’s about mastering the skills of Dating with Dignity, being feminine, being powerful, and being irresistible to men in the 21st century. Because the truth, ladies, is this: Men don’t love bitches, and The Rules was written in the ’90s. Things have changed, and it’s time for you to master the new rules.

Step Three: Rejuvenate!

Becoming the Sexy Alpha Femme to Have It All:

  • Ditch what your mom and grandma told you about relationships and become a master at the “Modern Woman’s Dilemma.” (A must if you want a lasting relationship in the 21st century.)
  • Learn how to always know what to do, what to say, and what “move to make” with a guy, without worrying that you’ll somehow “screw it up.”
  • Discover Dating with Dignity’s secret formula to finding your best match on- and off-line. (There are two key mistakes you could be making right now!)
  • Never backslide, freak out, or obsess over a guy ever again by connecting to your “POWER SELF.”
  • Learn how to get what you want from men without being a bitch, shutting down, rolling your eyes, or slamming the door.

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Marni Battista


Your Event Host & Founder of Dating with Dignity

Marni Battista is a highly sought-after dating coach, the creator of the proven-effective Find Love Now System, and the founder of Dating with Dignity. Ryan Seacrest has called her “the best dating expert,” and she’s a regular co-host on Dr. Drew’s Loveline.

Marni has become well-known and respected for providing “deeply honest feedback that goes far beyond your typical “band-aid” fix so you can resolve the deep challenges, fears, and beliefs that are holding you back from finding the love you deserve.

Oprah regular Paul Brunson says: “Marni’s the real deal, and she’s successfully helped thousands of women all over the world to find husbands, long-term love, increased peace and fulfillment, more optimism, and a new sense of hope.”

ryan seacrest quote about Marni Battista: "best dating expert!"


Mathew Boggs

Mat Boggs


What Men Wish You Knew about What Makes Them Fall in Love

A true difference maker, Mat Boggs has dedicated his life to increasing love in the world one heart at a time and helping others achieve their dreams. Mat has co-­authored the best-­selling book Project Everlasting: Two Bachelors Discover the Secrets of America’s Greatest Marriages. 
Mat has appeared on dozens of national media venues, including The Today Show, CNN Headline News, Fox News, CNN Showbiz Tonight, ABC Family, The Style Network, and many others, as well as contributed to an international peace symposium with His Holiness the Dalai Lama. 
As a highly sought-after speaker, relationship coach, and certified LifeSuccess consultant, Mat has helped people all over the country understand the hearts and minds of men, create major breakthroughs in love, and attract the relationship they want.


Evan Marc Katz


Helping Strong & Successful Women to Understand and Connect with Men

Billed as a “personal trainer for smart, strong, successful women,” dating coach Evan Marc Katz has been helping singles find love since 2003. He’s the author of three relationship books, most recently Why He Disappeared, and his blog reached 1.5 million people last year. Evan has been featured in the New York Times, The Wall Street Journal, and Glamour, and appeared on CNN, Today, The Early Show, The Tyra Banks Show, and The Rachael Ray Show.

Most importantly, thousands of Evan’s clients have fallen in love, gotten married, and started families thanks to his materials. Whether you’re online dating, dating or embarking on a new relationship, once you learn to understand men from a MAN’s point of view, you’re going to be a very powerful woman.

Evan Marc Katz


Kim Seltzer

Kimberly Seltzer


Give Yourself a Makeover That Will Attract Higher-Quality Men

Kimberly Seltzer LCSW is a therapist, matchmaker, image expert and dating coach based in Los Angeles. She utilizes the unique combination of therapy, in-field date coaching, NLP and styling to help people with their confidence and dating life. Kimberly helps women and men update and discover their dating image through wardrobe consultation, assistance in purchasing clothes that fit each body type and lifestyle, and set life goals. Kimberly is also a single mom who specializes working with divorcees to get their mojo back and navigate the dating world.


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Q: Will this really work for me? Because honestly, nothing works for me.

A: As with anything in life, you get out what you put in. So if you show up to this event with an open heart and a ready-for-anything attitude — and you participate, focus, and enjoy your experience — then yes, “Ignite Your Life” will work for you.

Our technology has worked for thousands of women who followed it before you, and if I have my way it’ll work for hundreds of thousands of women in the future. It’s a system that works if you work it.

Dating With Dignity Testimonial

Marni artfully leads people through dating with grace, and yes, dignity. She is humorous, compassionate, and disarmingly brilliant…she is a leader in her field who’s time has come.
~ Lisa Hayes-Howell

Q: I don’t think I can find the time to make it. Will you be hosting another one?

A: Here’s the deal: all the research shows that if you don’t take action now to change your life, you probably never will.

That means you’ll be stuck with all the same problems you have right now — year after year — because that’s what happens when you say things such as “I can’t find the time” or “I can’t take off work” or “It’s too far to travel” (no excuse there with Livestream!) or “I need to be home for my kids” (again, we got you covered with the Livestream!).

If you want to keep making excuses, then you know what? This event probably isn’t for you.

However, if you’re fed up with your situation and you want to take inspired action to change your life, you need to be at “Ignite Your Life” this year–no matter how inconvenient it seems.

And speaking of research…did you know that 80% of the men and women in the dating pool don’t have the social skills necessary to date effectively? They simply never learned them at school or from their parents; and even if they do know what to do, they’re not able to actually do it in the moment.

And the truth is, if you were in the 20% of people who have the necessary social skills to date effectively, you probably wouldn’t be here reading this page right now, would you?

Dating with Dignity Testimonial

I’m overjoyed at this whole process and so thankful to have you in my life. Thank you for doing what you do. I have literally changed my life, and you are the catalyst who made it happen. I am eternally grateful.
~ Sara K.

Q: How does this event recording compare price-wise to your other programs and events?

A: “Ignite Your Life” is a CELEBRATION for women everywhere, and as such I’ve designed this event to be accessible to all.

Those who have applied for my “Ignite Your Life Private Retreat” know that my live trainings usually begin in the $5000 range for three days of live training…

Access to the “Ignite Your Life” recording isn’t even close to that. It’s a super-reasonable price, cheaper than tickets to the event.

Dating with Dignity Testimonial

Your style of teaching exudes warmth, and your content is a rich blend of personal experience and thorough research. I would congratulate any woman who studies with you as having made a wise decision.
~ Felice Dunas, PhD

Q: I seriously don’t have the money. What if I can’t afford this program?

A: I know money seems tight right now, but don’t let that hold you back. The truth is that if you don’t do this now, you probably never will — and that means you’ll continue to struggle for a very long time.

Don’t let time keep passing you by while you’re not with the love of your life. You deserve to be loved, but you have to take action to make it happen.

Now, I want to ask you a question. On a scale of 1-10 (10 being the highest), how important is finding love to you?

If it’s an 8 or higher, you honestly can’t afford not to come to this event, especially if you’re spending money on other things that are supposed to help you find love such as online dating sites, girls night out, expensive makeup, and cute clothes. Of course those things matter, but they’re not going to work to help you find love on their own. They need to be done in addition to a training program such as “Ignite Your Life.”

Do you want a man who’s going to treat you like a princess? Then you have to set the precedent by treating yourself like a princess. “Ignite Your Life” is a GREAT place to start.

Dating with Dignity Testimonial

It’s simply amazing. Also, all of my dates have wanted to date me again and have called immediately. Quite honestly, I never thought I’d be the type of girl to face such a dilemma. I’m writing to give you a thousand thank yous! Your shared knowledge has truly changed my dating life.
~ Cedes, Los Angeles, CA

Q: I’ve done a TON of programs and events with other dating coaches. How is this any different?

A: Our approach is different because we know that you can’t think your way out of your thoughts. Most personal development programs, events, and retreats teach you tricks and rules to do things differently; but if YOU aren’t fundamentally different, you’re not going to be able to maintain it. The actions you do make are going to feel forced and unnatural, and you’ll always be second-guessing yourself.

That’s why you can take a class and the coach can say “Who cares if he doesn’t call? Don’t freak out…just go with the flow,” and it can make complete sense to you — until you’re in the moment. And then, all of a sudden, your knee-jerk reactions kick in, and you start texting him, freaking out, and obsessing.

Our formula is different because we focus on what most other coaches ignore. It’s customized for adult learners, and it’s based on the most cutting-edge brain science. We change the components that matter so you actually FEEL differently in your body. You’re not intellectually telling yourself not to care if that guy doesn’t call. You honestly don’t care because you FEEL and BELIEVE that you don’t have to care. You know he’s not the best guy you’re ever going to get.

This event is different because at the end of this weekend, you’ll know what it FEELS like to be a confident woman of value.

Plus — and this is important — Dating with Dignity in general is different because it’s led by me–and I’ve been where you are. I’ve been married, I’ve been divorced, I’ve been in long-term relationships, and I’ve been single. I’ve been the tough girl, the codependent girl, the needy girl, and the party girl. I’ve gone through all these challenges myself, so I bring far more to the table than, say, a man in his thirties or a woman who found the love of her life in her twenties.

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I loved your class. I never considered the old paradigm was outdated… As I think further about this, I know society is struggling with women’s new position as it relates to men. We are all confused, trying to figure it out and the push to have us go back to being “feminine” is an attempt to reach back to the past to put things in order again. I agree it just won’t work. We aren’t the women of yesteryear, and we don’t need to be quiet, passive, and only respond – not lead – to ensure our survival. We do need a new paradigm, and congratulations for realizing this and even marketing it. I am eager to hear the rest of your presentation. Brava!
~ Jan

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Ignite Your Life, a LIVE Experiential Event Hosted by Marni Battista

Let’s Recap What You’ll Get

  • Host Marni Battista guiding you through 2 ½ days of game-changing strategies for igniting your love life and finding love now!
  • Mat Boggs teaching you how to detect the real cues that he’s into you… or not.
  • Evan Marc Katz showing you the step-by-step formula to making it easy for a quality guy to fall head over heels in love with you.
  • Kimberly Seltzer giving you the secrets to looking & feeling sexy with elite image & wardrobe makeover advice.
  • A handsome panel of real men answering your biggest questions about men, love & relationships. They won’t hold back anything!
  • A golden opportunity to really shift into this exciting new year full of hope and proven strategies for attracting the loving relationship you’ve always wanted.


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Last year on her birthday, after some time spent sampling the free insights on DWD, Suzi went ahead and invested in her Journey to Find Love. Her rationale for the purchase was simple and insightful: “Don’t undervalue yourself. You’re worth investing in.” Like many others out there, she was accustomed to buying products that improved her outer sense of beauty, makeup and clothes, but now it was time to improve that inner strength that, unfortunately, is often left undeveloped and forgotten. Since making that investment Suzi said “yes” to the man of her dreams and is living her happily ever after!
~ Suzi, DWD Success Story

Dating With Dignity Testimonial

Marni helped me stop making excuses, got me out of playing the victim, and helped me detach from my breakup in a healthy way–no prescriptions necessary. I started taking control of my life and began creating a life I love. I would not have been able to do this without my life coach. I love you, Marni! Thank you for teaching me how to get my life back!
~ Aryn, Los Angeles

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I signed on to my Match.com account and clicked to read my profile that I had written before I began “Find Love Now.” It’s very interesting how many sentences I had to delete in my profile that clearly do not represent who I am today. Now I have a profile that fully embraces the love that I have for myself!
~ Shelley B.

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I use these positive communications skills, which has kept my relationship happy and healthy! It’s my best relationship because of EVERYTHING I learned in the “Breaking the Romantic Rut” & “Super Me” classes: life-changing, amazing stuff that’s so easy to do.
~ Tracy J.

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I went to this event last time and it was FABULOUS! It is great to get authentic info from the guys, first hand! Plus, they’re all hot, hot, hot!! I may have to go again!
~ Cynthia, Los Angeles


I came to you in the midst of a breakup, the end of yet another destructive relationship on the heels of divorce. Within 9 months I am so grateful that I just told my mom that my dream is coming true. I met the love of my life within three months of beginning work with you, and now we’re moving in together and joining our lives…I’m staying with you, Marni.
~ Katie, Hermosa Beach


Since working with you, I’m in the best relationship I have ever been in — and in seven months we’re getting married in Aruba! I used to be the girl who had the wall up so high that nobody was able to get close me. I’ve come a long way from the scared, unsure girl who first started working with you, and I’m with the most loving, trustworthy, kind man: the man of my dreams!
~ Hayley W.


“Rick was talking about some specifics about a potential engagement ring with me this weekend. 🙂 I’m proof that the D-Factor and your coaching helped me find the man of my dreams — what I totally deserved! You rock! Keep sharing your gifts, girlfriend.” (Update: Denise and Rick were married in December 2012.)
~ Denise W., Portland


“I have great news! I got engaged this Saturday! Thanks so much for all your help this past year. I’m super happy!” (Note: Since Neha’s wedding last year, she and her husband Rupen welcomed a baby into the world!)
~ Neha

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For the first time I’m making decisions and not being afraid of making them. I’m not letting my fears overtake me, and I am truly learning and believing the message of love for myself. So far I’m learning that that it truly is the key. Without embarking on this journey, I would have stayed safe, single and bitter.
~ Deb, Los Angeles

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I want to thank you so much for all your help over the past 4 months. I found you when I was in a lot of pain and drowning, and you were the perfect lifeline at the perfect time. You help to remind me to live in “choice” and to focus on the amazing life I have and the life I’m creating each day.
~ Jennifer P.


Before now I’d never understood the concept of being vulnerable and raw when it came to myself, and I was always trying to people-please and keep up with what THEY all thought was right for me. I finally took a stance and regained control of my desires and destiny. My work with Marni has deepened my relationship with myself, my family, and my boyfriend — whom I’m now engaged to!
~ Amanda S.

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I got engaged last night 🙂 My BF proposed on our rooftop looking out on to the Philly skyline. So nice and truly us. I’m so happy and excited. Thanks for the Dating Dens and all the practical guidance that led me here. It feels awesome. Thanks again for your guidance and positive influence.
~ Bianca M., NYC

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Marni used the D-Factor Process to help me recognize the destructive self-talk and garbage I’d been carrying around for so many years. Within two weeks of the session, I began a new romantic relationship that has totally thrived. Marni, I’ll be sure you get an invite to the wedding. [ Update: He married her in September 2012, and I attended their beautiful wedding. The D-Factor Process totally works! –Marni ]
~ Jason M., Portland


Smart and beautiful, with a contagious smile, Lisa Reingold found herself stuck in a messy romance. The only guy in her life at the time was trying to date both her and another woman. Despite her obvious displeasure and disinterest in the whole situation, Lisa was surprised with her own reluctance to say “sayonara” and move on with her life. She kept thinking, wondering, maybe even wishing that the man would change, that something in his mind would switch paths and that he’d suddenly or slowly start heading toward the kind of commitment she’d been searching for.
Fast-forward to Lisa today, 42 and recently married to the love of her life (not the man mentioned above, fortunately). Her guy is Mark, a former college acquaintance, Facebook connection, Boston-LA long distance courter and now loving husband. When she met Mark, Lisa was amazed that all those things she had worried and fought for so much in past relationships were gone for good. Within minutes, they both realized that the constant fight for commitment, and everything that goes with it, wasn’t necessary.
~ Lisa R., DWD Success Story

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