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		<title>There Are No Miracles at Starbucks. How to Get the Love you Deserve</title>
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		<pubDate>Wed, 16 Jun 2010 18:37:53 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[Date and Relationship Coach Marni Battista shares how she found love and created an amazing life--and how you can too!]]></description>
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		<title>Boundary Fallout:  What to Expect When You Set Boundaries for REELZ!</title>
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		<pubDate>Thu, 03 Jun 2010 23:03:32 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[Expert coach Marni Battista teaches you how to handle the fallout of setting boundaries, and how to remain committed to the boundaries you set when your strength and willpower are tested.]]></description>
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		<title>Five Boundaries You Set to Date with Dignity and Attract the Real Deal!</title>
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		<pubDate>Tue, 01 Jun 2010 18:40:46 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[For those of you who have that covered, keep in mind that I am not just speaking about telling a guy "no," when it comes to sex, or asking that he be on time.  I am talking about the types of boundaries that set your stomach a-twitter simply by envisioning the conversation in which you have to say "no,"  face the retaliation, see the look of dismay or have the argument that ensues once you draw the line.  ]]></description>
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		<title>How to Date Differently to Get Better Results</title>
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		<pubDate>Mon, 26 Apr 2010 17:43:55 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Marni Battista</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[When the inner voice is telling us to make a change, do something differently, let go of a relationship that isn't working, or stop hiding behind the comfort and safety of the familiar, we must look at why we are consistently taking the path of least resistance.  We become so used to doing things one way, that we forget there are other options. Here are a few questions to gauge if you are ready to begin shifting your behaviors and patterns to get better, different results:]]></description>
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		<title>Angelica&#8217;s Journey: Choosing Who I Want Through Understanding Who I Am</title>
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		<description><![CDATA[How to decide what you want in a relationship, to make sure you end up with a match!]]></description>
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		<title>Alert:  How to set Your Boundaries with MEN Now, Before Time Runs Out</title>
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		<pubDate>Mon, 12 Apr 2010 21:07:48 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Marni Battista</dc:creator>
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		<category><![CDATA[Understanding the MANimal Species. What Kind of Man Are You Dating?]]></category>
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		<description><![CDATA[Here is the scoop on this week's Question at Dating With Dignity: How do I establish boundaries and express my needs without causing my guy to "run off," or think I am too high maintenance?

Ok, the truth is this:  Time isn't "running out," but I invite you to act like it is, because often we only act when we think there is an immediate consequence.
The consequence is this:  The longer you play it "cool," the longer you are allowing yourself to spend time dating men who aren't looking for what you want -- a relationship.]]></description>
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		<title>Feeling &#8220;Stuck?&#8221;  Here&#8217;s why it&#8217;s not all bad&#8230;</title>
		<link>http://datingwithdignity.com/2010/03/feeling-stuck-heres-why-its-not-all-bad/</link>
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		<pubDate>Mon, 29 Mar 2010 16:05:04 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Marni Battista</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[Expert dating coach Marni Battista explains the benefits of a slump, and why feeling "stuck" may be exactly what you need to grow, and experience NEW levels of happiness.]]></description>
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		<title>4 Steps to Eliminating Excess Boyfriend Baggage</title>
		<link>http://datingwithdignity.com/2010/03/4-steps-to-eliminating-excess-boyfriend-baggage/</link>
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		<pubDate>Wed, 24 Mar 2010 18:36:08 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Marni Battista</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[Does every promising new relationship seem to end in heartbreak? Your excess boyfriend baggage may be to blame. Read on to learn 4 easy steps to beat the baggage and find the amazing relationship you've been searching for!]]></description>
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		<title>Why Is Everyone Being So Mean to Valentine&#8217;s Day?</title>
		<link>http://datingwithdignity.com/2010/02/why-is-everyone-being-so-mean-to-valentines-day/</link>
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		<pubDate>Thu, 11 Feb 2010 16:55:40 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Marni Battista</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[If Valentine's Day were a person I would be defending her, taking her to lunch to help "pump" her up, and unabashedly wondering why people are avoiding her at all costs.  I mean, geez, she's just a pink and red Hallmark holiday moment. She doesn't smell.  Dress weird, or have bad breath.
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		<title>Q and A Review:  The Best Way to Stop Making the Same Mistakes!</title>
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		<pubDate>Tue, 09 Feb 2010 16:58:52 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Marni Battista</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[I have had a variety of clients in the past week who are trying to break free from repeating the same patterns.  While they realize that the results each time are exactly the same, there seems to be something that propels them forward into madness, frustration and disappointment.
That said, how can you immediately stop [...]]]></description>
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