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		<title>How To Attract Mr. Right At a Party &#8212; One Woman&#8217;s Adventure Into Hollywood</title>
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		<pubDate>Wed, 01 Sep 2010 16:05:19 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Marni Battista</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[In using the D-Factor, Date-Ability Assessment, I am able to discover that this conscious self-perception often does not match the true beliefs that  lie in her subconscious.  This knowledge, coupled with watching someone in action, can be an amazing way to help someone tweak and polish their vibe so that they can begin to attract not who they GET, but the men they WANT.
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		<title>Boundary Fallout:  What to Expect When You Set Boundaries for REELZ!</title>
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		<pubDate>Thu, 03 Jun 2010 23:03:32 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Marni Battista</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[Expert coach Marni Battista teaches you how to handle the fallout of setting boundaries, and how to remain committed to the boundaries you set when your strength and willpower are tested.]]></description>
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		<title>Why Women Get &#8220;Trapped&#8221; By the Sensitive Man:  Understanding the &#8220;Cry Baby!&#8221;</title>
		<link>http://datingwithdignity.com/2010/05/why-women-get-trapped-by-the-sensitive-man-understanding-the-cry-baby/</link>
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		<pubDate>Mon, 03 May 2010 16:54:33 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Marni Battista</dc:creator>
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		<category><![CDATA[Understanding the MANimal Species. What Kind of Man Are You Dating?]]></category>
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		<description><![CDATA[The Cry Baby is a man who may blame himself for what is not right in his life and often battles feelings of guilt. He may truly love you, but is unable to cope, manage or create win-win relationships.  Instead of communicating his fears or changing his behaviors, he will often blame you, and then feel guilty that he can't give you what you need.  He often will avoid confrontation, take everything personally, and often will feel as if he is being persecuted for his and other's mistakes.  He will typically keep his feelings and opinions to himself, except for when he is blaming you.  In addition, the Cry Baby can quickly fall into co-dependent relationships yet always feels like he is "alone," and that nobody understands his plight.  The Cry Baby will often sabotage relationships, feeling he is truly not deserving or capable of having one.]]></description>
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		<title>A Dangerous MANimal; Meet &#8220;The Hunter!&#8221;  Are You Attracted To Him and Why?</title>
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		<pubDate>Wed, 28 Apr 2010 16:44:48 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Marni Battista</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[The good news is that The MANimals are also wearing masks!  And, just like your mask is flashing thoughts, beliefs, and feelings, their masks are flashing too.  Wouldn't it be fabulous if you had special 3-D MANimal glasses that enabled you to SEE exactly what each MANimal is thinking?  What he truly believes?  His fears?  His hangups?  And why his actions are merely reflections of these deep, unconscious thoughts?
Now, for the first time, I am revealing the "Thoughts, Feelings and Beliefs" (TFB) of each MANimal.  Today, we will begin with a close look at "The Hunter."]]></description>
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		<title>How to Date Differently to Get Better Results</title>
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		<pubDate>Mon, 26 Apr 2010 17:43:55 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Marni Battista</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[When the inner voice is telling us to make a change, do something differently, let go of a relationship that isn't working, or stop hiding behind the comfort and safety of the familiar, we must look at why we are consistently taking the path of least resistance.  We become so used to doing things one way, that we forget there are other options. Here are a few questions to gauge if you are ready to begin shifting your behaviors and patterns to get better, different results:]]></description>
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		<title>Alert:  How to set Your Boundaries with MEN Now, Before Time Runs Out</title>
		<link>http://datingwithdignity.com/2010/04/alert-how-to-set-your-boundaries-with-men-now-before-time-runs-out/</link>
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		<pubDate>Mon, 12 Apr 2010 21:07:48 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Marni Battista</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[Here is the scoop on this week's Question at Dating With Dignity: How do I establish boundaries and express my needs without causing my guy to "run off," or think I am too high maintenance?

Ok, the truth is this:  Time isn't "running out," but I invite you to act like it is, because often we only act when we think there is an immediate consequence.
The consequence is this:  The longer you play it "cool," the longer you are allowing yourself to spend time dating men who aren't looking for what you want -- a relationship.]]></description>
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		<title>Feeling &#8220;Stuck?&#8221;  Here&#8217;s why it&#8217;s not all bad&#8230;</title>
		<link>http://datingwithdignity.com/2010/03/feeling-stuck-heres-why-its-not-all-bad/</link>
		<comments>http://datingwithdignity.com/2010/03/feeling-stuck-heres-why-its-not-all-bad/#comments</comments>
		<pubDate>Mon, 29 Mar 2010 16:05:04 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Marni Battista</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[Expert dating coach Marni Battista explains the benefits of a slump, and why feeling "stuck" may be exactly what you need to grow, and experience NEW levels of happiness.]]></description>
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		<title>How to Shift When You Are Feeling Triggered or Stuck in Uck.</title>
		<link>http://datingwithdignity.com/2010/02/how-to-shift-when-you-are-feeling-triggered-or-stuck-in-uck/</link>
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		<pubDate>Wed, 03 Feb 2010 04:22:07 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Marni Battista</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[There are so many moments in our lives when we feel stuck.  We see how we "want" to be, yet  recognize that the negative thoughts and feelings we have are the result of certain triggers, (e.g, situations or people) that make us feel powerless, reconnect us to the pain we are trying to leave behind, or create ick feelings of frustration.   What's most difficult is that it can happen when we least expect it, even those moments when we are feeling super groovy.  

When you are triggered, however, it doesn't mean you have to stay "stuck" in this ick feeling.  There are techniques you can use to become aware of your "re-actions" and then help you become responsible for your changing your thoughts, feelings and actions so that you can literally catapult yourself to a new level of awareness, happiness, and ultimately love of self and others.  Here's an example of how negative victim or conflict thinking can manifest inside your head via the "word" of the inner critical voice I often refer to as the "dark side" voice:
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		<title>A Quick and Easy Way to Get Rich.</title>
		<link>http://datingwithdignity.com/2010/02/a-quick-and-easy-way-to-get-rich/</link>
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		<pubDate>Mon, 01 Feb 2010 17:50:44 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Marni Battista</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[oly wow, I thought.  As the man continued his countdown, nearing the number ONE, people began to run from their seats, pushing past chairs, haphazardly careening past those who had chosen to simply walk.  It was incredible.  Did these people really believe that this organization could help them to acquire tremendous wealth with ease? Here I had been sitting in the room next door listening to the New Thought Gurus tell people that thinking "inside the box" was limiting their ability to be successful, while this man was calling them to action.  He had, I'm sure, spent the hour prior to the sales pitch giving his own version of "believe in yourself," and now he had managed to inspire (or brainwash?) people to run to pay money and invest in their belief.

Who was right?  The Gurus?  The Salesman?]]></description>
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