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		<title>Living in the Question Mark:  How to Pull-Out of the &#8220;He&#8217;s Out or He&#8217;s In&#8221; Mentality</title>
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		<description><![CDATA[I like to use imagery to help clients (and myself) understand what life is like when lived "in the question mark."  Imagine then, if you will, the two extreme options.  For example, the man I am dating is "in"  -- meaning he is "the one," or he is "out," meaning I must break up with him immediately.  If I choose to live in the "question mark," however, I am standing smack dab in the middle of both these extreme options.

What, though, does it feel like to BE, to LIVE  life in the question mark?  Here's how to experience those feelings so that you can begin to go there effortlessly when you feel yourself heading down the path of "either/or"  black and white thinking]]></description>
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		<title>When to Stop Saying, &#8220;It&#8217;s fine,&#8221; When it&#8217;s Really Not Fine At All&#8230;</title>
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		<title>Why Is Everyone Being So Mean to Valentine&#8217;s Day?</title>
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		<title>Why Ultimatums Don’t Work:  The Story of a Stapler</title>
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		<description><![CDATA[It was difficult to leave him the following night.  We had dinner in Laguna with friends, sneaking in kisses between the banter.   I leaned into him, walking back to the car after dinner, planting bittersweet kisses on his neck.  We kissed for nearly an hour in the car outside my house, my heart ricocheting off my ribcage as I wrestled with alternate feelings of elation then sadness before forcing myself to walk inside, alone. ]]></description>
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