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		<title>Carolin&#8217;s Journey Day #7: Carolin Gets a Makeover &#8211; But Will She Like It?</title>
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		<pubDate>Tue, 12 Apr 2011 22:26:33 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Marni Battista</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[What should have been a fun and enjoyable trip to Montana Avenue for a new look ends up making Carolin feel even worse than she did before. Unable to speak her truth and express her discomfort in the clothing choices available, will Carolin be able to find something that fits and makes her happy in time for the unveiling of her new look?]]></description>
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		<title>How to Tell if You&#8217;re Dating a Hunter</title>
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		<pubDate>Sat, 19 Mar 2011 01:43:17 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Marni Battista</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[In this episode of the Dating Den, Marni Battista reveals how to tell if you're dating a hunter. ]]></description>
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		<title>How Do I Open Up When I&#8217;m Interested?</title>
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		<pubDate>Tue, 15 Mar 2011 23:36:19 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Marni Battista</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[Dignity Dating guru Marni Battista reveals how to open up to men you're interested in, and how to be appropriate in your approach, so you avoid over sharing and scaring him off!]]></description>
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		<title>How to Tell if He is Ready for a Relationship</title>
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		<pubDate>Fri, 28 Jan 2011 20:07:16 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Marni Battista</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[Christian Anderson reveals how to tell if the man you're dating is looking for a relationship.]]></description>
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		<title>Dating Den: How to Move Your Relationship From Casual to Serious</title>
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		<pubDate>Fri, 14 Jan 2011 21:38:01 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Marni Battista</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[Dignity Dating Guru Marni Battista and co host Christian Anderson the secrets to moving your relationship from casual to serious.]]></description>
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		<title>Guest Blog:  The Truth About Bad Boys</title>
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		<pubDate>Thu, 24 Dec 2009 21:13:45 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Marni Battista</dc:creator>
				<category><![CDATA[Ask Dating Experts Series]]></category>
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		<category><![CDATA[Understanding the MANimal Species. What Kind of Man Are You Dating?]]></category>
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		<description><![CDATA[Now, on to the guest blog, written by David Shade.  While it has nothing to do with Christmas, per se, it does for me.  It was on Christmas Eve, six years ago, that I was madly in love with the consummate bad boy.  He was all these things.  Sometimes he was worse.  Sometimes he was better.  I tell people, "he was the best, worst thing that ever happened to me" because the pain I suffered as a result of this relationship was debilitating.  The good news is that it took me to the depths of myself, forcing me to pick myself up, transform my thinking, and take back control of my life.

My wish is for you to take control of your life in 2010.  I'm here to support you on the journey.  In the meantime, I'm going to smile, post this blog, breathe deeply, and do what is necessary to enjoy the warm Maui breeze --

Now, on to Bad Boys.  I'm dedicating this blog to mine.

]]></description>
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		<title>When is it too soon to discuss the &#8220;r&#8221; word &#8212; relationship?</title>
		<link>http://datingwithdignity.com/2009/12/when-is-it-too-soon-to-discuss-the-r-word-relationshi/</link>
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		<pubDate>Tue, 15 Dec 2009 19:29:30 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Marni Battista</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[Alert: The word, "relationship," is, in fact, not a bad word!

There is absolutely no need to avoid this word when you are dating someone whom you are beginning to care about.  However, it must be used correctly.  Thus, it is imperative that in using the word "relationship" in conversation you remember the following guidelines:
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		<title>It&#8217;s a New Feature to the DWD Blog!  Mondays are Now Q and A Day!</title>
		<link>http://datingwithdignity.com/2009/11/its-a-new-feature-to-the-dwd-blog-mondays-are-now-q-and-a-day/</link>
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		<pubDate>Mon, 02 Nov 2009 18:46:28 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Marni Battista</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[Question #1: Is there a way to sleep with a man, and keep your dignity? To answer this question thoroughly requires that you have an awareness about a few of the  Dating With Dignity Tools, and how they help you date with dignity.  While an in-depth examination of this question requires time and coaching, you can begin now by asking yourself one primary question:  "What is my relationship goal?"  When answering this question, make sure you are specific and clear.  ]]></description>
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		<title>Guest Blog:  Dating is complicated, or is it?</title>
		<link>http://datingwithdignity.com/2009/10/guest-blog-dating-is-complicated-or-is-it/</link>
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		<pubDate>Tue, 27 Oct 2009 22:40:15 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Marni Battista</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[It’s complicated.

Who hasn’t uttered those two words when confronted with the realization that the perfect man you’ve been dating, with whom you share an intense connection, may not be showing up.  

Of course, he’s there.  He’s texting, calling you baby, sleeping with you, and maybe even cooking you dinner.  You fall asleep in each other’s arms, and you blissfully leave the next morning, more confident than ever in the direction your relationship is heading.
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		<title>The Weekend Client Challenge: Was She Able to Say &#8220;NO&#8221; to the Last Minute Date?</title>
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		<pubDate>Mon, 12 Oct 2009 19:36:35 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Marni Battista</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[I have a client, let's call her Jane, who met a man online a few weeks ago.  He had been out of the country since they first "met" online so she had been communicating with him via text and email.  During the course of these emails she began to connect with him (let's call him Brad) because they share similar interests and appear to have the same values.  As can be expected, Jane began to really "fall" for Brad, and I thus encouraged her to pull back and wait until he returned to Los Angeles to continue communicating with Brad at length. She didn't want to engage in a pattern she has which is to begin to see a man as "the one," before he has even come close to being a candidate for that title.]]></description>
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