I know, you know it -- but until now, maybe you haven’t said it out loud...
Being successful, independent, and strong has worked for you in so many ways, except that you have your guard up – a wall – that is so part of who you are that you may not realize that it’s driving quality men away.
During this advanced 3 day training, we will go beyond what you already know about yourself to discover how to tear down your wall, be truly vulnerable, and open up your heart so that the right man finds you truly irresistible.
This isn’t self-help 101 – this is doing the deep work to discover the blind spots that you didn’t even know were at the root of your problems with men.
If you’re a woman who’s “tried everything” and still can’t figure out what you’re doing wrong with men...
… you’re in the right place!
It’s time to STOP Believing That Love Might Not Be in the Cards for You—and Do What Works!
Do you feel like you a part of you is shut down because you have been operating in busy mode for so long you forgot what it feels like to feel alive, joyous, and desired by a man?
Are you struggling to attract a great man who will chase you and date you?
Do you tend to get into on again/off again relationships because you are afraid of being alone?
Or do you attract great men who turn out to be unavailable?
Does it feel like men are super confusing?
Do you think quality men just aren’t into smart and successful women?
Do you need help to understand what motivates them, how they think, and why they're attracted to certain women?
Does it feel like you have to work so much harder than other women just to attract a guy you might like?
Are YOU ready to leave all that behind?!
Great! Come spend three days with me and we will!
Since working with you, I am in the best relationship I have ever been in -- and in seven months we’re getting married in Aruba!
I used to be the girl who had the wall up so high that nobody was able to get close me. I’ve come a long way from the scared, unsure girl who first started working with you, and I’m with the most loving, trustworthy, kind man: the man of my dreams!
I came to you in the midst of a breakup, the end of yet another destructive relationship on the heels of divorce. I met the love of my life within three months of beginning work with you, and now we’re moving in together and joining our lives...I’m staying with you, Marni.
I’ve been seeing someone for eight months and we just moved in together. This relationship has been so different than any other.
I used so many tools and tips from your training. I know I wouldn’t feel this good without you. Thank you, Marni!
If you have TRIED everything to find love – if you feel like you’re not a beginner on the spiritual journey to living your best life, but you still have not experienced a long-term loving relationship with a quality man who makes you feel seen, heard, and loved completely – then this three-day advanced training is for you.
I hope it’s okay if I’m 100% totally honest with you.
Because here’s the thing...
It doesn’t matter anymore that you’ve done a lot of work—and that it has helped you overcome so much in your life.
The truth is, it’s not working when it comes to men and dating. When it comes to love, you’re still stumped. And if you’re anything like I was, it makes you feel even worse.
Like your life is a paradox.
In so many areas of your life you constantly project strength, but inside there’s a part of you that thinks maybe you’re not capable of a relationship. Or that at a deep level, you feel unlove-able or not worthy of love from an amazing man.
If you have been settling, coping, and trying to convince yourself that you can live a great life being single, and you’re ready to truly take responsibility at the deepest level for claiming BIG love in this lifetime, this weekend is the miracle you have been praying for.
If you want to know what’s missing and why you’re still single… If you want to find out how you can stop the patterns of negative thinking and tear down the walls you built to be strong – but are keeping you from find the amazing man and relationship your heart desires – I can help you.
If you've read all the self-help books, signed up for all the single woman bootcamps, and attended all the love seminars – and you're still single – this event is designed especially for you.
If you want to become irresistible for the long term to the RIGHT guy, are ready to do the work, and are most successful when you have clear path to follow, this is your weekend to have the BIG breakthrough that not only changes your game, but changes your life.
If you feel like this is YOUR year... and YOUR time... read on.
Those lucky women who find love and lasting intimacy in life know there is a precise formula to find, attract, date, and keep a desirable man, and this is the exact formula you will learn during this life-changing experience.
So get ready, because you're about to take the last dating and relationship journey you're ever going to need.
Come join us and spend three days in an intimate setting learning exactly what it takes for a strong, independent, successful woman to become truly irresistible to a strong, confident, loving man.
During these three days with Marni, you will walk through the three keys to becoming irresistible to a quality man. Our proven process will help you:
Identify the UNCONSCIOUS moves you are making that are at the heart of what you’re doing wrong with men so that you can finally change it forever.
Finally understand the true keys to femininity — vulnerability and authenticity — and learn specific strategies to tear down the protective walls you’ve built around your heart (whether you know they are there or not) so that you become a magnet for men who are emotionally available, strong, smart, and have been looking for a woman like you their entire lives.
Get a quality man to pursue you, adore you, and commit to you in a way that feels like breathing: no more “playing the game,” and no more feeling rejected, broken-hearted and powerless.
Have an embodied feeling of being a confident sexy woman—the “It Girl” who has quality men worrying about screwing it up with you!
Our approach is different because we know that you can’t think your way out of your thoughts (or you would have already). An intellectual pursuit of attraction and love, full of over-thinking, rationalizing, and second-guessing… Does. Not. Work.
The problem is, most personal development programs, events, and retreats teach you mind tricks and rules to do things differently; but if in your heart you don’t feel fundamentally different, you’re not going to be able to maintain it. Your actions will feel forced and unnatural, and you’ll eventually revert back to your old ways.
That’s why you can take a class and the coach can say, “Who cares if he doesn’t call? Don’t freak out… Just go with the flow,” and it can make complete sense to you—until you’re in the moment. And then, all of a sudden, your knee-jerk reactions kick in and you start texting him, freaking out, and obsessing.
The Becoming Irresistible advanced training is different.
We focus on what other coaches ignore. It’s customized for adult learners, and it’s based on the most cutting-edge behavioral science. We change the components that matter so you actually FEEL different in your body. You’re not intellectually telling yourself you’re not doing anything wrong with a certain guy: you honestly FEEL and BELIEVE that you aren’t doing anything wrong. You know he’s not the only guy you’re ever going to attract.
This retreat is different because at the end of the weekend you’re going to know what it FEELS like to be a woman whom men can’t resist. You’ll possess the one quality great men always look for in the women they love: self-assurance.
Plus – and this is important – Dating with Dignity in general is different because it’s led by me—and I’ve been where you are. I’ve been married, I’ve been divorced, I’ve been in long-term relationships, and I’ve been single. I’ve been the tough girl, the co-dependent girl, the needy girl, and the party girl.
Most importantly, I was the girl who didn’t believe she deserved love… and now I am happily married to the love of my life!
I was 100% sure I had tried EVERYTHING and nothing was going to work. Until it did!
I’ve gone through all these challenges myself, so I bring far more to the table than, say, a man in his 30s or a woman who found the love of her life in her 20s. When you come to the Becoming Irresistible retreat, you’ll get to work with me in person and learn to let go of past hurts, falling in love with yourself as a woman so that rejection no longer exists for you and you succeed in love AND your career.
You’ll discover how to be energetically free to meet someone new so that you don’t lament over what “could have been.”
You’ll let go of the limiting belief that you don’t deserve to find love with an amazing man, so that you feel hopeful about love, whether again or for the first time.
And you’ll discover how to be flirty, feminine, and vulnerable so that you let go of your past once and for all.
The best shortcut to knowledge is by learning from other people’s experiences, which you’ll get when you attend Becoming Irresistible 2016.
By being with other like-minded women who have different experiences, you’ll be able to engage, interact, and learn together. Other women will ask questions that you never thought of so that you’ll learn things you didn’t know you didn’t know.
This truly is priceless and will accelerate your growth and possibly even save you from making a future mistake.
I have great news! I got engaged this Saturday! Thanks so much for all your help this past year. I’m super happy!
(Since Neha's wedding last year, she and her husband Rupen welcomed a baby into the world!)
I am for the first time in my life entering into a relationship with a high-quality man who adores me and who I am adoring in return (So exciting.)!
I am starting my own business, and I am the happiest and most confident I have ever been in my life.
This first portion of the event is devoted to showing you why nothing else you've tried has worked to change your love life and the exact step-by-step action plan you need to take so that our secret attraction technology works for you. (This approach is designed for smart woman like you, so we leverage everything that is working in your life and help you apply it to the one area in which you have been stuck most of your life.)
By the end of this first day, you'll understand why you’re still single, attracting the wrong men, not attracted to the men who desire you, and why you can’t break love patterns that don’t match who you are in the other areas of your life. Plus, you will understand what you need to do so that you attract a man who is open, vulnerable, and committed—and whose words and actions match.
Identify exactly what you are doing wrong with men and the #1 characteristic you must unlock (It’s the most scary; and without help and support, most women can’t get there on their own.) if you want to attract a man who is open, vulnerable, committed, and whose words and actions match
Understand what makes strong, independent, successful women irresistible to a quality guy and how you can re-program your dating GPS without having to play games.
Understand why finding love with a man you are attracted to has been a “mission impossible” up until now because of unconscious “programs” that have been superseding all your conscious desires for a healthy, happy, and loving relationship, AND a paint-by-numbers system to start to shift now. (Just knowing this will help to vanish negative self-talk and self-blame!)
Figure out (finally) why nothing you have tried ever worked before so you stop “trying harder” at the wrong things, wasting time, and sabotaging all your efforts.
Learn what “feminine” means in the 21st century, especially as a successful woman so that you don’t have to jump into the girly-girl bucket to attract powerful alpha-men.
Reality check yourself. Learn who you are really being when you’re out v. who you think you are being. This data will rock your world and give you specific, attainable goals to work toward that don’t feel like work.
The Weight Loss Technique. Get control over the all-consuming “I’m not enough, or maybe there’s something wrong with me, or I’m not love-able” inner dialogue to shed the “ugh” weight of the world off your shoulders and transform it into exciting possibilities and enthusiasm for your journey to find love!
The second day of the event is devoted to sex appeal. We will literally hold your hand and walk you through how to become irresistible through discovering your feminine energy and how to organically balance it with your masculine energy to attract YOUR type of quality man. We will start to break those negative dating patterns that are always popping up and causing men to disappear and screw you over. Whatever your unique pattern is, this is the part of the event where you stop doing it—forever.
You will unlock The Essential Musts of Femininity through accessing your most authentic YOU. (You’ll learn what “feminine” means for a high-powered, successful woman who doesn't want to have to jump into the girly-girl bucket so that you can date powerful men without having to give up the parts of you that have served you well!)
If you’ve felt like there is a sensitive, soft woman inside of you who nobody sees or gets about you, this day will help you soften your outside edges so that you can be truly YOU in a way that feels safe, loving, and intimate. On Day 2 you will:
Unlock femininity without having to give up being a strong, independent, smart, and successful woman.
Be courageous: learn how to be brave enough to have hope and stop settling on being single.
Become real: the fastest way to show a quality man your feminine side without being girly or someone who are not.
Discover the unconscious barriers to the #1 WALL 90 percent of woman have up that is keeping men from really seeing you for who you are.
Learn the #1 MUST you need to develop to truly connect in a soulful way with a quality man.
Get off the guy “emotional roller coaster” once and for all to become a confident dater who stops saying “I don’t get it” to both her male and female friends.
Discover how to get comfortable in your own skin when you walk into a room. Learn our #1 mind trick to be able to access inner peace, joy, and confidence, regardless of what happens with the guy so that you can be the “It Girl” who demands attention when she walks in the room every time.
Tap into your feminine power so you stop obsessing about what he thinks, whether he’s into you, or what it means when he does X, Y, or Z (all without having to be a girly-girl).
Learn why you haven’t been able to change your results, no matter how smart you are and how hard you try, to finally understand WHAT you will have to do. (Trust me, it’s nothing you’ve done before because you didn’t even know you had to do it.)
We’ve hand-picked a panel of handsome, insightful and utterly truthful men to answer ANY question you have about men & dating!
Some women consider this the best part of the entire event.
Answers to women’s top questions about men and dating are REVEALED!
What’s your biggest first-date turnoff?
Why do guys disappear?
How do you spot the “wrong guy”?
What’s the best way to approach a guy you like?
What makes men fall in love?
The #1 thing that makes men fall in love. (Once you master this, there will be a slew of great men pursuing you!)
The HUGE mistake most women make that attracts players, cheaters, and emotionally unavailable guys AND drives away good men. You’ll turn around and wonder where all the high-quality men chasing you came from!
How to cut through the BS and quickly identify the good guys from the bad guys. Your girlfriends will beg for your secret to attracting only high-quality men, and you’ll know what men are really thinking when they start dating a new woman. Use this information to reel in your man and make him fall in love.
How a man’s romantic system works: what he thinks, feels, and does when he’s REALLY into a woman.
And way more!
The final day of the event is devoted to showing you how to become the sexy alpha femme “It Girl” who high-quality men can’t resist and desire for love and a serious relationship.
It's about mastering the skills of Dating with Dignity, being feminine, and being powerful so that you're irresistible to men in the 21st century. Because the truth, ladies, is this: Men don't love bitches, and The Rules was written in the '90s. Things have changed, and it's time for you to master the new rules and learn the specific “irresistible moves” that will alert a quality man that you are someone different: the special woman who really is his “needle in the haystack” that he’s been dreaming about for years.
Finally understand why the media, your mom, and Disney are killing your chances of finding love now so that you can be selective without being too picky. (Once you understand what men really need from a woman, you will have the heart-melting words that will set him on fire.)
How to speak the secret language of a chivalrous man who’s crazy about you so that you can receive all he has to give in a way that is alluring and powerful.
Irresistible Moves: strategies you can use RIGHT NOW to demonstrate to men that you are a high-quality woman who will flip his commitment switch.
How to set boundaries in a way that actually TURNS him ON and magnetizes him toward you instantly.
Ditching “The List”: learn the secret formula to finding your best match off and online. (There are TWO KEY mistakes you could be making that are keeping you single and stuck.)
Make sure you don’t backslide, freak out, or obsess ever again by connecting to your POWER self using tools and strategies that take less than two minutes to implement. (End date jitters, obsessing, and worry forever!)
Each year thousands of women attend our group programs and events. I’d say half claim they aren’t “group people.” And yet… they love the experience.
Becoming Irresistible — 3-Day Advanced Training is perfect for you especially if you’re not a “group person.” In life, what you resist… persists. I’ve seen time and time again that the women who claim they’re not “group people” get the most out of the experience. The energy, engagement, and excitement at Becoming Irresistible — 3-Day Advanced Training is seriously profound and unlike anything you could ever get on your own. It’s the experience of a lifetime, and each year women walk away from this event describing it as the moment that changed everything for them: the moment they learned their true worth and the moment that led them directly to the perfect man for them.
As with anything in life, if you do what you’ve always done, you’ll get what you’ve always gotten. The Becoming Irresistible — 3-Day Advanced Training is experiential, different from anything you’ve ever done. That’s why the results we get are so extraordinary.
The fact that this event takes place over a threeday weekend is precisely the reason why we can promise such profound results. Seven out of 10 women who come to our live events report they’re in loving, committed relationships within the first year. Seven out of 10!
The digital distractions and stress of having to work: to run your business or professional life? These things are keeping you stuck in your romantic rut. During this weekend we simply take them out of the equation so you can focus on positive change.
Here’s the deal: research shows that if you don’t take action now to change your life, you probably never will.
That means you’ll be stuck with all the same problems you have right now—year after year. That’s what happens when you say things like “I can’t find the time” or “I can’t take off work” or “It’s too far to travel” or “I need to be home for my kids.” If you want to keep making excuses, this event probably isn’t for you.
However, if you’re fed up with your situation and you want to take inspired action to change your life, you need to be at Becoming Irresistible — 3-Day Advanced Training THIS YEAR—no matter how inconvenient it seems.
Becoming Irresistible — 3-Day Advanced Training is a CELEBRATION for women everywhere, and I’ve designed this event to be accessible to all. Those who have attended my private retreat know that my live trainings usually begin in the $5000 range for three days of live training. Tickets to Becoming Irresistible — 3-Day Advanced Training aren’t even close to that. And because they’re so accessible, they WILL go quickly. So be sure to get yours by ordering now.
If money seems tight right now, don’t let that hold you back. The truth is that if you don’t do this now, you probably never will—and that means you’ll continue to struggle for a very long time. Don’t let another year go by while you’re not with the love of your life. You deserve to be loved, but you have to take action to make it happen.
I know have a lot of work to do – is this the right event for me? Perfect. The Becoming Irresistible — 3-Day Advanced Training will transform you into the woman that men can’t resist so that when you are ready to get out there and date, you attract quality men and succeed like never before!
Imagine this – dating will be easy from the get-go. You will breeze through the process enjoying all the quality men pursuing you while your girlfriends will still be complaining that there are no good men online and that all the good guys are taken!
Even if you have no trouble attracting men, something you’re doing is turning them off without you realizing it. The Becoming Irresistible — 3-Day Advanced Training eliminates those tendencies and you feel an inherent change in your body, heart and soul. You literally are different so the way men act and react to you is different, as if by magic.
Ignite Your Life is about learning how to have it all – Love, Career, Sex – everything your heart desires.
Becoming Irresistible is our advanced training, designed for the strong, successful, busy woman who is ready to truly create intimacy with a quality man through a deep understanding of vulnerability, femininity, and how it creates irresistible attraction to a quality, conscious, strong man. By using techniques supported by the latest brain science, every lesson, exercise and experience that is part of Becoming Irresistible will change neural pathways to finally create breakthroughs that can take years to accomplish through traditional cognitive transformational processes such as therapy. This event is about bridging the vulnerability gaps so that you can become a strong women who has the courage to truly tear down the “walls of masculinity,” get out of survival mode, get out of the boxing ring, and dive deeply into her most authentic, feminine, irresistible self.
You’re seriously fed up with getting screwed over, and you just want to find the perfect guy for you and be done with being single forever.
You’re crazy successful at everything you put your mind to – except love – and you want to know why. No one in your life knows why you’re single because you’re a total catch, so you want to know what the hell is going on.
You’re open to trying something new and totally unconventional to get to the bottom of your unlucky love life.
You know that something you’re doing with men isn’t working, and you’re ready to find out what you need to do differently to get your love life where you want it to be.
You are ready to make finding love your #1 priority and are willing to take responsibility to do what it takes to make it happen.
You get satisfaction out of being in drama-filled relationships and you’re not really motivated to change.
You’d rather complain about your situation and hear your friends and family give you sympathy than actually take action to change what’s not working.
You secretly enjoy being treated poorly by men, and you have no desire to find out why.
You’re always right, and you’re not open to anyone else’s point of view about what you could do differently in your love life.
You don’t want the truth about why you’re still single; you just want to hear what you want to hear.
Los Angeles Airport Marriott
LAX. The hotel is very conveniently located, just a few minute drive from the airport. The hotel has a FREE convenient shuttle that will take you to the hotel and back to the airport making your transportation effortless!
Registration starts Thursday night (5:00 PM – 7:00 PM) and resumes Friday morning at 7:30 AM.
The training starts at 8:30am sharp on Friday, Saturday and Sunday.
The event finishes at 4:00 PM on Sunday afternoon.
|Thursday:Thur:||5:30 PM – 7:00 PM||Registration|
|Friday:Fri:||8:00 AM – 8:30 AM||Registration|
|8:30 AM – 5:30 PM||Session 1|
|5:30 PM – 7:00 PM||Soiree|
|Saturday:Sat:||8:30 AM – 5:30 PM||Session 2|
|7:30 PM – 9:00 PM||Inside the Locker Room|
|Sunday:Sun:||8:30 AM – 4:00 PM||Session 3|
Once you register, we'll send you a special room reservation link to get a discounted price (it’s really affordable!).
We’re offering a new VIP Experience that includes catered meals, exclusive time with our Master Coaches, and a special Q&A session with Marni to help you fully assimilate and accelerate everything you are learning. You’ll get full details on the VIP Experience once you claim your bonus seat.
Your ticket includes attendance at our Dating with Dignity Meet & Greet Soiree!
You'll be able to relax outdoors California-style, give me that big hug you owe me, and get your event registration taken care of! Plus you'll have the opportunity to relax, shake off the nerves and fears, and deeply connect with the other like-minded women who are ready to take the journey to find love now with you. (Your next best friend and soul sister could be there waiting to meet you!)
Attendees from ALL my events simply RAVE about the connection with real, smart, authentic, no-friils women. I attract a really powerful and amazing group of heart-centered, successful, strong women who are committed to transformation.
Let’s Recap What You’re Going to Get:
Host Marni Battista guiding you through 3 days of game-changing strategies for becoming irresistible to quality men and finding love now!
Our Master Stylist and Makeover Expert, Kimberly Seltzer, giving you the secrets to looking & feeling sexy with elite image & wardrobe makeover advice.
A handsome panel of real men answering your biggest questions about men, love & relationships. They won’t hold anything back!
An amazing community of women who believe in constantly building themselves up, improving their lives, and embracing new ways to get better results in relationships.
A golden opportunity to really shift so that you date like you have never been burned, hurt or have a past you regret and become a confident woman who is full of hope and strategies for attracting the loving relationship you’ve always wanted.
And we'll be adding more world-renowned guest speakers in the months to come!