Comments for Dating With Dignity

Comment on Coaching Video #3: How to Become a MAN Magnet! by KP

KP — Thu, 17 May 2012 15:56:55 +0000

I did the D-Factor Assessment and it was full of “aha” moments!! I’m so glad I did it.

Comment on How to Survive Wedding Season Single by KP

KP — Thu, 17 May 2012 15:34:58 +0000

love it! And love treating yourself – on a budget, i like to do that by taking a bath, lighting candles, having a cup of tea, putting lotion on, painting my toenails….love it all!

Comment on Can Women Pursue Men Online? by KP

KP — Mon, 14 May 2012 01:22:45 +0000

As always, great advice Marni!

Comment on How Do You Get a Guy to Ask You Out? by KP

KP — Mon, 14 May 2012 01:15:40 +0000

this post makes me smile- love all these things!

Comment on How to Get the Commitment YOU Want. by Steven Manus

Steven Manus — Tue, 17 Apr 2012 21:19:49 +0000

This is great advice, Marni. It really helps to clarify your intentions early on. And, it shows that you are a person of integrity, which is more of a novelty these days. Most important, it sets an energetic tone, which your partner has to tune into, rather than simply going on autopilot.

Comment on Dating Den: What to Do When He Acts Distant and Starts Pulling Away by Melissa

Melissa — Mon, 16 Apr 2012 01:24:21 +0000

cont. he started to be distant til the point we r not talking anymore. i let it go to give him some space. but how long should i wait for him to contact me?

Comment on Dating Den: What to Do When He Acts Distant and Starts Pulling Away by Melissa

Melissa — Mon, 16 Apr 2012 01:22:20 +0000

What if you have a serious relationship for three months and he was the one who wnated and said he was ready for to be committed and after 3 months of relationship, he says that he feels smothered and crowded and that he thought he was ready n wanted a relationship but he misses doing and going everywhere w/o consulting to anybody.

Comment on Dating Den: Why Do Guys Disappear After a Great Date? by Sarah Mitz

Sarah Mitz — Fri, 13 Apr 2012 20:52:32 +0000

Um…first of all are you two dating cause there’s some serious flirtation going on. Even with body language you two are almost sitting in the same chair by the end. Hahaha No, but seriously my main concern here is that quality casual things do turn into relationships. I feel like I give off the I want a boyfriend vibe and I don’t know how to stop doing that. I want to give off the casual vibe with out giving off a I want a one night stand vibe. Most relationships start as the quality casual and evolve to exclusive relationship. I always date more than one guy at a time yet when I am on a date with one of them they are the first to say, “just to let you know I am also seeing someone else.” This has happened to me with the last two guys literally seconds after they first kiss me. I don’t even get a chance to say that line first in order to relieve the pressure. Once they say it first it feels like a non-rejection rejection and gives them the complete power. I want quality casual and I understand the don’ts of making this happen but don’t have any clue as to what to do or say to create quality casual vibe. Thanks!

Comment on Dating Den: What to Do When He Acts Distant and Starts Pulling Away by Steven Manus

Steven Manus — Wed, 11 Apr 2012 22:40:53 +0000

I agree with much of what you both are saying. In addition, a woman can be consistent with her energy toward a man she likes. Simple respect, kindness, cheerfulness, and a quiet dignity will draw a man of quality. And, yes; let him move forward. It doesn’t hurt to wait a while before you sleep with him either, to give him the idea that you’re a prize worth pursuing.

Comment on Why Women Get “Trapped” By the Sensitive Man: Understanding the “Cry Baby!” by Joe Smith

Joe Smith — Mon, 09 Apr 2012 22:34:43 +0000

There’s really no such thing as a co-dependent. That’s like saying someone has “Go to work” disease. It’s a terrible disease where each and every day the person gets up at about 7:45 am, rushes out the door as fast as they can, gets to work by 9 (often barely making it on time) and then “works” until about 5pm. About every two weeks the person is “enabled” in their “Go to work” disease by being paid by the organization they work for. Thus, the psychotherapist’s folly. Everything can be turned into a disease; even being loving, caring about others, helping etc. That’s all a co-dependent is. Often, people who are in relationships aren’t ready to be “taken care of” by them and so they can’t handle being in relationships with those who are good at it (aka “co-dependents” by the psychotherapist folly). People who can’t handle being in a relationship with them have a terrible “disease” called “could these people just calm the hell down” disease!!!! Thus, the folly of psychotherapy and that we are foolish enough to believe it.