Listen to Joanne’s Love Success Story: Dating Expert Advice: Joanne’s Love Success Story
Love Has This Way of Coming When You Least Expect It…
But this time Joanne had dating expert Marni Battista and she was ready!
She wasn’t looking for him and suddenly there he was: ‘eye-candy’ jogging on the beach. He was running straight towards her. Her heart skipped a beat and she took a peek behind her, wondering what he was looking for. Apparently, as he explained later, she was sitting on his ‘favorite rock’. A brief conversation and surprise kiss ensued, and now she is thriving in her healthiest, happiest relationship in years (with talks of marriage!).
Joanne Flowers came to Marni with that simple feeling that many successful women possess: the sense that a happy life is best when sharing it with someone else. Joanne enjoyed many parts of being single. With her strong personality, positive outlook and a get-it-done attitude, she was happy with her life as it was….except…there was something missing, like a missing piece to a puzzle, that one last empty space which completed the overall picture of her happiness. If she didn’t find that missing piece then it would continue pestering at her heart forever.
Before Gary, her wonderful ‘beach eye-candy’, Joanne had found a certain kind of success in her dating life. She was going out with plenty of great-on-paper guys (8 to be exact), but their more attractive qualities weren’t translating into what Joanne was attracted to the most: a solid rock to sit on. She wanted commitment, but these 8 guys seemed to have 8 different excuses as to why that wasn’t in their cards.
Cue Marni Batista! Joanne admits that at first she preferred to sit back and simply listen in to all of Marni’s webinars. But finally, one day, Marni mentioned something that connected so strongly to Joanne’s life that she couldn’t stand on the sidelines any longer: “There is a big difference between being vulnerable and being weak.” Joanne recognized that she had been trying all these years to bring her strong, active personality into her love life and that this was turning away the type of man she wanted. She wasn’t going to act or try to ‘dummy down’ to men, but that didn’t mean she couldn’t open up a little more of her softer, feminine side: her vulnerability.
“Thanks for being my eye-candy.” She said that day on the beach.
“You’re eye-candy. Are you single?”
“Can I kiss you?”
Admittedly, this scene was not a part of Joanne’s normal dating process, but with Marni’s advice installed in her mind, she was exuding a kind of confidence that the ‘normal dating process’ could not deny. She had always known what she wanted, but now she knew how she could get it! Joanne had invested in her attraction, in her romantic future, just like buying a new wardrobe, and the results were clear: her confidence and clarity for the moment brought her the man of her life!
You’re Just 14 Days Away from this Kind of Happiness
Joanne’s success story is a great illustration: in order to get different results in her love life, she had to try something different. And for us Type-A, goal-oriented people, we don’t want to waste our time reading books that aren’t relevant to our specific hangups. We want results and we want them fast. This is why men and women all over the world who are successful at everything but long-term, romantic relationships come to Dating With Dignity — we help you ignite your love life sustainably!