Welcome to day four of the Fix Yo’ Self and Fix Yo’ Mood Eight Day Holiday Challenge!
Here is today’s writing / thought prompt….
Pain is inevitable; suffering is optional. Find the hidden gift or silver lining in something that happened to you this year and imagine opening it like a present on Christmas Day. What would it look like? What would it feel like to see its value as precious and rare?
Remember, you can either respond to this prompt in your journal, or close your eyes and reflect on it for two minutes. Whichever you prefer!
And if you feel comfortable, please share your answer in the comment box below!
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Well I have been talking with a guy who has this odd relationship of 5 years with a girl who he doesn’t want to further any relationship but it’s comfortable so keeps it going. We talk for 4 months almost everyday before anything get physical. Well there was kissing. In the mean time he gets a DUI. So now he can’t drive. I understand everyone goes thru crap so I’m understanding of this. So the other day after we get off the phone he butt dials me and I have a 4 min voicemail of typical male crap. However in the beginning he goes on about how he likes messing (using nice words here) with women’s heads. How he’s good then doesn’t call them for a week and how it messes with them. Then goes into how f’d up we are. I was floored cause the morning before over breakfast he’s saying how he likes me and enjoys my company, etc. My gift is that I heard that now and hopefully I am strong enough to keep away from him. I’m 38 and he is 40. It’s time he grows up and I don’t settle anymore!!!!
Woah! It sounds like this guy might have a few issues happening and it sounds like he may still be a Hunter. The bottom line: he did you a favor by butt dialing you because now you can move on to the next! Keep watching and keep Dating With Dignity!