How DO you get a guy to ask you out?
It’s a question a lot of women have: How on earth can I get that guy or those guys to ask me out?
Do you find yourself frequenting places where you feel like you should meet at least one man a day? If you’re going to coffee shops, bookstores and bars but really aren’t meeting any quality men (or at least not getting them to ask you out), you need to get familiar with Eye TT.
So what is Eye TT?
Eye: As Man Panelist and Dating Den co-host Christian Anderson of LetsTalkDating.com might say, a little bit of “eye tennis” never hurt anybody. One of the KEY ways to let a man know you’re interested is to give him a little eye attention.
Men are not going to approach you unless they’ve already anticipated that they’re going to have success in asking you out. In this regard, men are just as afraid of rejection as women are. So go ahead, let him know you’re interested!
T: Touch. This might be the oldest trick in the book, and you probably aren’t thinking about it. Men go nuts about a woman’s femininity. When you express your femininity in the right away, he’s going to be instantly attracted to you. Even just a casual brush of your collarbone or a quick run of your hands through your hair can make a man’s hormones take a leap!
T: The last T is for Talk. This does NOT mean ask him out. It also doesn’t mean you have to launch into a full-on conversation, but a nice comment about something around you that you can both relate to (“It’s so nice that it’s summer! I finally get to start ordering iced coffees…”) is a great way to invite him to connect with you and lead him in the direction of asking you out!
So go ahead: Try making a little eye contact, playing up your feminine side and striking up a casual conversation. What’s the worst thing that could happen?