Really good adviced it will help us girls a lot of hurt.
Marni and Christian I met this guy last December, he started calling me every other day and also texting me calling me Doll, Sexy and beautiful, he invited me to his house for lunch 2 times, dinner 1 time and out to a rest. 1 time. Always asking me to be intimate. Well it happened last month, after that he didn’t call me for a week, which I did not call him either. When he finally call me he said, why you have not call me are you ok. I responded yes I am fine I know you are busy with your business and didn’t whant to disturb you. we did it again 2 weeks ago, and again he didn’t call me for 1 wk and I didn’t call. That day we were together I mentioned to him that I was going to see my doctor. He called me last Friday and told me I didn’t call you because you’re sick at the hospital. I answer no I am not sick, he response was, then why you didn’t call me. I know he is really busy with his business, last wk he had to go twice to NY from CA. and today he is at KY I really want him, but I don’t want to be the one calling or texting him. I want to be persue and adore. What do I do. Last time we communicate was las Tuesday. He has not invited me to his house or to go out for two months
Please Marni, Chris help me what can I do to not loose him but at the same time not to be me the one always calling and reaching out to him.
Love this advice! In all my many years of dating, I didn’t have a clue…perhaps that’s one reason why I’m still single!
My question is about him staying at your place. Marni gave the example of having her boyfriend sleep in a different room because it was too late for him to leave. What if that’s not an option? Roommates, no extra bed, only a loveseat too small for him to sleep on? Do you offer him the floor?
And Marni, love the hair!
Marni — EXCELLENT advice as always. Dating with dignity — your company is so appropriately named… Love the real life stories and the video how-to’s. I’m excited to share this golden dating advice with my matchmaking clients.