Dating With Dignity

By: Christian Anderson

Pop Quiz: You just returned home from an awesome date with a new guy. You ended the date with a nice hug goodbye (always better because it keeps him wanting more, and keeps you looking ultra classy), and are feeling really excited. Which of the following should you NOT do next?

A) call your girl friend to tell her how great the date was.

B) get some good shut eye.

C) have a night cap and take the dog for a nice walk.

D) text the guy and tell him again what an amazing time you had, and how you can’t wait for your next date.

E) ANYTHING BUT D

Yep, it’s D. Somewhere along the way, someone started a rumor that sending out a text once you get home to cap the night with a little love tap is a good idea. I see it all the time. I hear about it all the time. And I’m here to tell you: don’t believe the hype-it’s not the best move. Why?

Because it’s always good to keep him wanting more, and you want that hug goodbye to be the last impression for the night. A little love note via text now moves you from “cool classy girl I just went on a great date with and could not steal a kiss from,” to “Oh, she is totally into this and getting awfully girly awfully quick. Crap, this was going so well. Darn, maybe I should take my time calling her again.”

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By: Christina Morassi
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