Here we go…July 4th, 2010 …BBQ’s, beach parties, and all types of events that might mention the whole birthday for America thing, but most likely celebrate the brat and beer. All good, though, because it gets people together; people ready to relax, celebrate, and mingle.
If you haven’t yet made plans, but know of some events–get out there and do it! As my mentor says: “Christian! Half of life is just showing up!” You might be in the mood to stay in with your girlfriends at the house and have a glass of wine, but you have every other day of the year to do that. With the 4th on a Sunday, you have the perfect opportunity to get not one, not two, but THREE days of events and meet-ups.
So get online, look at those email invites and check out the different events that are happening in your neck of the woods this weekend. I am not saying you are going to meet Mr. Right, since I don’t condone that mindset (too much pressure, too much focus on one goal, and not enough focus on learning more about your own growth), but I do think the magic happens, whether it is through new friendships, associations, or potential dates, when you get out there and miiiiiiiiingle.
There are bound to be a slew of single gentlemen out there, and even if they are not your type, you are still doing your data dating, finding out what works for you, and learning more about yourself as you interact with all these men that want a piece of your Dating With Dignity mindset. Trust me, many of these guys will be out to get a little something something for the weekend, and you can have a D.W.D workout by steering them into Gentleman Land by upholding your classy values and practicing all the great Dating With Dignity principles. If they are still doing 85 mph on Sex Me Drive, then give them a speeding ticket and take the next exit!
Remember, we men are simple animals. Where this is food, we eat. Where there is a bed we sleep. Where there is a toilet…you get my point. But also, where there is a classy woman, we provide. So while you are out this weekend, if you feed us sexy gal who is down to get down, we are thinking the back seat of our car and you are invited. If you feed us super classy girl who is true to herself, confident, and laid back, we U-Turn out of Sex Me Drive and take a left on Potential Mrs. Lane.
So go have a great time this weekend. Have a cocktail, mingle with friends, and hang with us guys. We will certainly be on the hunt. The only question is: what will you feed us?
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