Hi…the guy I was seeing ended things with me because I wanted to know what our situation was…and basically what it was to him. He panicked, and told me he didn’t think we should date any more, but he’d always be my friend. Right. I told him I couldn’t do the “friend” thing after what we had. I wouldn’t be true and genuine to him by pretending. Anyway, after trying to work things out, he is now gone again. But I have too much dignity to fall into the friend zone. He won’t be getting my adoration that way. He did that to his last girlfriend and she’s been hanging on for years, even to go as far as to live in his house and pay him rent. She also just moved her boyfriend in as well. So she has his attention and he still has hers….to a degree. That’s just so pathetic. But I won’t be in the ex’s boat…I have my own canoe, thank you.