Dating With Dignity

For those of you who have been here for a while,or for those who are new, it’s time for a pop quiz!

Here’s the question:

What does it mean to “date with dignity?”

The Man Panelists, who are going to be live at the event on March 4th, chimed in recently with their interpretations, and a few choice excerpts appear below.  The reason I am sharing this with you today, is that it is my intention this month to kill one of the biggest Urban Legend’s that surround dating; the false belief that “there are no good men out there,” or “all the good men are gay or taken,”  or “I’m not pretty, skinny, or tall enough to get someone whom I find attractive.”

It’s crap.  All of it.

Which is why I want you to hear it straight from the proverbial “horse’s mouth” today.  But there is more to this, it is truly understanding that in order to Date with Dignity you need to be clear on the following:

1.  What it is you want (specifics here please, put it in writing.)

2.  Who are you at your core?  What are your needs, expectations and are you in love with YOU?

3.  What are the values (not characteristics)  you find non-negotiable in a partner?

So, that said, are you ready to date with dignity?  Are you ready to commit to yourself, to changing within, to stop blaming the “jerks” of the past on the present circumstance in which you find yourself?  I’m asking today because  it’s mid-February.  Your New Year Resolutions might be forgotten, and the Valentine’s Day drama is done.  So now, here you have landed smack dab in the middle of an internet dating haven, filled with opportunities to support you in manifesting your DREAM relationship.

Take a look at how we can begin to help you now.

New Dating With Dignity classes are starting in March, so check out the new $99 Eight Week Tele- Coaching Program, take the D-Factor Date-ability Assessment to get a one-on-one Coaching Evaluation with me to see why you are attracting the men you get, not necessarily the men you want, or download a FREEBIE audio on the site here.  If you are in LA, make sure you register for the MAN PANEL workshop on March 4, and take a minute to check out our local support communities, including Dating With Dignity and our brand new group, Results Driven Life.

There are opportunities to create change here for you.  Tons of them!  We are excited to partner with you in the journey — because this false belief that there are “no good men”  is one Urban Legend that must die!

Now on to these  men; the Dating With Dignity Man Panelists!  Enjoy not only the “eye candy” offered here, but most importantly listen to their insight and know that the work you do – -with me or on your own –will pay off to give you the love,  and the life you deserve.

Chris Gillis:

Dating with dignity means doing all the necessary, often difficult, healthy balancing work to love and honor the person you’re with while at the same time continuing to love and honor yourself without sacrificing what truly makes you happy.

David Kaplan:

Dating with dignity is having respect for the people that come into my life, whether for a short or lengthy period. I’m constantly striving to leave a positive impression on those with whom I come in contact.

Tyler Gallagher:

Dating with dignity means that there are women out there that understand the importance of change from within rather than without.

Peter Lamas:

Dating with dignity is knowing how to value yourself in order to attract the right individual who has a higher level of understanding in how to take part in a relationship.

See you on the journey.