3 MONTHS !?!? most relationships dont last past that amount of time. sounds great under PERFECT conditions.But,lets face it not very realistic. This advise seems geared more towards females then males.I mean come on, your gonna have to call 911 for elephantitis of the nads for all the dudes.Sex is pretty darn important to a guy,so you want to deny someone you care for something that makes them happy? for what,so women dont feel like sluts? Another example of men not being allowed to be MEN. Then when we arent MEN ,we get all sorts of tests and complaints challenging the very manhood you try deny us.Sex is not everything,but just as important to us as it is for you to feel like you have a psychic and emotional tie. I think this is more an issue of evaluating who you are with and trusting in your ability to assess the situation,if you are wrong then change if not then happy bliss.I mean really how is that we have made it this far in the history of mankind without suggestions such as this? It would seem to me that the problem lies primarily with modern technology and the lost art of face to face communication. We are sadly the victims of our own technilogical prowess and the inevitable independence (isolation) that it creates.I cant tell you how many times I have seen people buried in their blackberry wherever you go.Its ludacrous,rude and sends a very unsocial message.Ever notice when your at the gym how many people seem to always be listening to an ipod or in an elevator when you walk in and everyone moves to their corner of the elevator. All signs of suspicion and fear of real communication. Oh well I seem to have gone off the subject a bit…but it is something to think about as it pertains to the bigger picture. thanks for the space to share.
A female friend of mine says that she wears her granny panties in order to avoid sex. The thought of being seen in the granny panties is totally mortifying to her.