Hey Maya, I’m sure many women can relate to this 21st century dating dilemma. The next time a guy asks YOU to call, or asks YOU to plan the date or HANG OUT, say something like this: “I’m a little old fashioned, and I really prefer a guy I’m dating to call me/plan the date. Can you work with that?” Of course he’ll say yes! Big hugs, Marni
How do I deal with guys who ask ME to ask them out or call them? I hate making the first move/pursuing. I like and want to be courted. So I do nothing. But the problem is that most guys these days are either just too scared or have no idea what to do. They ask us to “hang out”, do semi-dates or expect the girl to do all the work. Most girls put up with this so girls like me just get left behind. How long can I just keep waiting and waiting for a man with a plan?